“5 things we need to do to close the gender wage gap”, with Ms.

“5 things we need to do to close the gender wage gap”, with Ms. Jan Dubauskas and Candice Georgiadis

Review the team. Regularly evaluate the talent pool and consider if there are skilled employees who could rise if given the opportunity. In my last job, there was a woman who was buried in an IT area but who exhibited strong leadership and management skills. I promoted her and gave her the opportunity to grow. In the span of a year, she received two promotions and she’s now a Vice President who is responsible for multiple departments. We need to review the talent that we have and consider if given the opportunity, could they shine?

As part of my series about “the five things we need to do to close the gender wage gap” I had the pleasure of interviewing Ms. Jan Dubauskas. Ms. Dubauskas is Vice President, Senior Counsel for Health Insurance Innovations, Inc. (NASDAQ: HIIQ) an insuretech company where she oversees the Agile Health Insurance and Life Insurance eCommerce Divisions and conducts government and public relations. Prior to joining HIIQ, Ms. Dubauskas served as Chief Legal Officer and General Counsel for IHC Specialty Benefits where she was responsible for its legal and compliance operations. Prior to that, Ms. Dubauskas served as Secretary and General Counsel for Oxford Life Insurance Company where she was responsible for legal and compliance. Ms. Dubauskas graduated with a Bachelor of Arts from the University of Oregon and obtained her Juris Doctorate from Arizona State University College of Law where she graduated as a Pedrick Scholar. Ms. Dubauskas is an attorney licensed in the state of Arizona.

Thank you so much for joining us! Can you tell us the “backstory” that brought you to this career path?

Absolutely! Most people don’t decide to become an insurance lawyer and I certainly didn’t know that was my future either. What I did know is that I had a hunger to work hard and contribute to a business.

My first job as a lawyer was at U-Haul International, Inc. and one of my clients was their affiliate, Oxford Life Insurance Company. I started working with the Oxford Life team and really dug into the nuances of the business, learning and contributing as much as I could. When their General Counsel left, they approached me and asked if I’d be interested in learning even more.

When considering the opportunity, I thought that insurance was too much of a niche market and I’d create a problem for my career growth later on, but then I realized that insurance is an enormous area that impacts every single person throughout all stages of their life with their health, life, auto, homeowners insurance and more.

Once I realized how broad insurance really can be, I dug in deep and haven’t looked back!

Can you share the most interesting story that happened to you since you began this career?

The thing I’m most proud of is my son’s reaction to my career. Over the last few years, I’ve started working with government and public relations, speaking at national conferences, meeting officials at HHS, Department of Insurance Commissioners — and more recently I’ve had the opportunity to appear on national cable tv shows. My son (17 years old) wants to be a lawyer like me and says, “Mom, you’re a bad ass!”

Can you share a story about the funniest or most interesting mistake you made when you were first starting? Can you tell us what lesson you learned from that?

This one is pretty embarrassing — as I said, my first legal job was at U-Haul International, Inc., and I got it in a very unusual way! One of my professors was well connected at U-Haul and said they had a job opening so he gave me the phone number for the General Counsel. After working up my nerve, I called his number and got the secretary who said the General Counsel was in a meeting and she’d take a message. After the call, I realized I should have given her my cell number so I called back and got a deep, gravely — and definitely male voice on the other end! I was so surprised, I hung up! Yes, I hung up on the General Counsel for U-Haul! After taking several deep breaths and waiting 5 minutes, I assumed he would definitely be in his meeting. So I called back and the same deep, gravely and definitely male voice answered! I said, “Hi, my name is Jan, I just called and…” and he finished “Yeah — you just called and hung up on me!” He started laughing uproariously.

We laughed really hard over it and needless to say, we smoothed it over and I got the job. After that embarrassing experience, I’m always prepared to make my best pitch when I make a phone call because you never know who’s going to answer the phone!

Ok let’s jump to the main focus of our interview. Even in 2019, women still earn about 80 cents for every dollar a man makes. Can you explain three of the main factors that are causing the wage gap?

Let’s start by acknowledging that the pay gap is decreasing over time as more and more women enter the work force and graduate from college and post-graduate programs. Universities have more female than male students and this will only grow as our girls in elementary and high school are encouraged in STEM, math and other scientific programs. However, we do experience the pay gap today.

Culturally, we raise our families around a primary caregiver, typically the mother. Many women are thrilled to be the primary caregiver for their children and make that choice. It is noble and it is a worthy choice to make. The most important investment we make in life is in our children. And with any investment comes sacrifice. If the mother is the primary caregiver, then she’s sacrificing time she could have spent growing her career and earning a higher wage.

On the other hand, there are women like me who choose to work while raising children (my husband and I have a blended family with 5 children ages 21, 19, 17, 3, 2). My sacrifice is different, I give up time with my children to pursue career goals.

Can you share with our readers what your work is doing to help close the gender wage gap?

At HIIQ, we treat all contributors to the team as gender neutral; hiring and promotion decisions are based on results. And the results are interesting; our leadership team is 60% female. When decisions are based on results and the team is given the opportunity to learn about the business, it opens the door for everybody to decide whether they’d like to put in the hard work to grow.

As a leader in the health insurance industry, as well as in the life insurance industry, it’s important to share knowledge and mentor those within the sphere of influence. One of the fun things my eCommerce team does is a monthly book club. We’re focusing on basic business principles for the next couple of months and then we’ll move into more insurance-specific topics to give all members of the team a chance to learn and grow.

Can you recommend 5 things that need to be done on a broader societal level to close the gender wage gap. Please share a story or example for each.

Work in companies that value our contribution and pay accordingly. There are many companies that value the employee’s work product and contribution to the organization over their gender. Find those companies and work there. One of the companies I worked for early in my career was known not to pay well at the top levels. While I worked hard and got rewarded by increased responsibilities and opportunities, increases in wages just didn’t happen despite regular discussions about wages with my supervisor. Because I was confident I could get paid more for the same work elsewhere, I started looking for another job and within 6 months, accepted a position making more than double! Find the company that values your contributions and will pay you accordingly.

Close any gaps in skills. The insurance industry is famous for certificates and designations that show someone studied a particular area of the business. Most signatures go something like this: Jane Smith, ABC, DEF, GHI and loudly call out many designations. At my first job in the insurance industry, I was surrounded by much older men who all had several insurance designations they proudly displayed on their walls. Realizing that these designations indicate dedication to the industry and eagerness to learn, I spent the next year working in my own time to gain a designation — and not only did it garner me more respect in the workplace with coworkers and colleagues, I learned a lot, too. Consider what designations or certificates or skills are needed to excel in the industry culture — and then go out and get them.

Review the team. Regularly evaluate the talent pool and consider if there are skilled employees who could rise if given the opportunity. In my last job, there was a woman who was buried in an IT area but who exhibited strong leadership and management skills. I promoted her and gave her the opportunity to grow. In the span of a year, she received two promotions and she’s now a Vice President who is responsible for multiple departments. We need to review the talent that we have and consider if given the opportunity, could they shine?

Have confidence. It is important to have confidence in the work that we do and the ideas we present. A lack of confidence can hurt our career and our wages when we fail to provide important research, share good ideas or contribute verbally during important team meetings. While it can be intimidating to come forward with what we know, how will our peers and superiors know what we offer if we don’t tell them? They won’t. A colleague of mine is smart and ambitious but in group settings, she is reticent to speak up and creates an awkwardness that others fill by simply passing her over. She does great work and until she has the confidence to value her own contribution as much as others do, she will continue to be passed by.

Enjoy networking. The insurance industry is a very tight knit community and people tend to keep tabs on one another over the years. We meet at conferences, regulatory events and business get-togethers. When we get to know more people in our industry, we learn more about how other companies operate, we learn about how other people tackle problems and in turn we think a little differently about how to handle our own problems. Networking gives us an opportunity to shine — and some people will really like us. Every job opportunity I’ve had in the industry has resulted from networking because I enjoy the chance to learn and grow in the community. Consider networking fun, look forward to it and keep an open mind as to what it may bring.

You are a person of great influence. If you could inspire a movement that would bring the most amount of good to the most amount of people, what would that be? You never know what your idea can trigger. 🙂

Curiosity is a person’s greatest asset in business. With curiosity comes humility. We set aside judgement and instead ask questions to learn and understand so that we can grow.

Many people approach their job and their career with a focus on just that — their job and their career — and miss out on the opportunity to learn about their company’s business. Learning about the business gives us the chance to better understand where we fit in and how we can contribute to the business overall.

When approaching a new business, think about and consider the business at hand. Ask: how do we make money? What is the most profitable product? Can we make that product better? Can we make our other products more profitable? Is there something we can do internally to improve our sales or our margins?

Be curious. Think outside of your current job duties and consider the business as a whole. It’s fascinating!

Can you please give us your favorite “Life Lesson Quote”? Can you share how that was relevant to you in your life?

“Don’t be a lazy lawyer.” (Insert your profession) This applies to everybody. Give your client, employer, or boss your best efforts. Don’t stop when you think you have the right answer, stop when you know you have the right answer. Be curious and thoughtful about your work.

During my third year of law school, I had the pleasure of interning with a brilliant lawyer in the Special Litigation Section of the Arizona Attorney General’s office, we focused on the high profile cases. He took time each week to develop a training session for his interns on various aspects of the practice of law. When he would give us a research project or any other kind of assignment, he wouldn’t give us the easy ones, he’d give us hard assignments that would teach us something. One time, he gave us a research project so hard, we couldn’t figure it out. We finally confessed that we were stumped. He got up from his desk, walked us to the library and showed us how to think about the project in another way. He said, “don’t be a lazy lawyer, think and be curious, always research your work until you are certain there is no new information to be found, then you know you’re done.”

Over the years, his advice rings in my head and almost every time I rush a project or make an assumption, the results are not as good as if I had worked through the project in a thoughtful manner. Because of that, I always remember: “Don’t be a lazy lawyer, Jan!”

We are very blessed that some of the biggest names in Business, VC funding, Sports, and Entertainment read this column. Is there a person in the world, or in the US whom you would love to have a private breakfast or lunch with, and why? He or she might see this, especially if we tag them. 🙂

Alanis Morissette! Alanis is a smart business woman who launched her career by unleashing her creativity in spite of protests that it didn’t suit her brand — and look what happened! In a male dominated environment (a subject she confronts), she stands out as an example of what you can do when you believe in yourself. Not only was she a sensation then, she maintains her fame and her business, while raising a beautiful family.

This was really meaningful! Thank you so much for your time.


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Ann Ayers, Dean of Colorado Women’s College at the University of Denver: “Here are the five things…

Ann Ayers, Dean of Colorado Women’s College at the University of Denver: “Here are the five things we need to do to close the Gender Wage Gap”

We’re wired to think men should earn more: For all the progress we’ve made, gender stereotypes, biases and systems still inform our beliefs and behaviors. We need to keep pushing ourselves to broaden our perspectives, to be empathetic, to be conscious of our unconscious. And we need to be willing to change. I’m always curious about what motivates change. In the area of diversity, equity and inclusion, I see the most progress when organizations understand and believe in the business case as well as the moral case, and when their leaders have spent time thinking about why this work matters — personally — to them.

I had the pleasure of interviewing Ann Haley Ayers. Ann has spent over 20 years re-imagining the possibilities available to organizations in the legal, corporate, non-profit and academic arenas. She builds powerful teams and develops energizing strategies that move people to action. Today, Ann is the Dean of Colorado Women’s College at the University of Denver (CWC). A lawyer by training, early in her career Ann worked on corporate mergers and acquisitions as an attorney in the Paris office of the global law firm of Hogan Lovells. Ann is a recipient both of the Robert F. Kennedy Award for Public Service and the Sally McDonald Medal for Extraordinary Service, and is known for her commitment to meaningful causes. Her resume includes business development with Fortune 500 corporations, as well as several prominent civic leadership positions and consulting opportunities with high-profile organizations like the San Francisco Opera, the Denver Art Museum, the Boettcher Foundation and numerous legal organizations and educational institutions. Ann is now leading a series of new initiatives at CWC that reimagine how a College within a University can answer the call for creating more equity (after all, today’s challenges won’t be solved with yesterday’s approaches). CWC’s focus lies in three areas where assumptions and expectations about gender grind the gears of equity progress: Self, Work and Home. The college calls these initiatives Equity Labs, and they will comprise the next chapter in the College’s 130-year legacy of fueling the education and success of women. Ann received her J.D. from The University of Virginia School of Law and her B.A. from Georgetown University. She regularly serves as a keynote speaker, panelist and gender equity ambassador. Her partner, Mark, is an executive at VMWare, and together they manage two careers and four boys.

Thank you so much for joining us! Can you tell us the “backstory” that brought you to this career path?

I have worked in law, business, non-profit and now higher education — always chasing one thing: the opportunity to develop people and build organizations that serve the public good. Years ago, when I was practicing law in a Paris firm, my husband and I decided to move home to start our family, near family. It would be in those first few years back home that I got my taste of the critical importance of women advocating for each other, and the necessity of working together to elevate diversity, equity and inclusion. Not just as a way to make better moral decisions, but better business decisions as well.

Soon after we moved back to Denver I was offered a job at one of the leading telecommunications and internet service providers of the time, Qwest. The position involved business development and mergers and acquisitions work, which would be an entirely new role and challenge. I was fortunate to wrangle a breakfast meeting with Steffie Allen, a long-time Colorado leadership influencer and member of the Colorado Women’s Hall of Fame. I shared my concerns about leaving law and some other stories. We parted and by lunchtime I had been called for interview by Denver’s top three law firms as well as by a VP from Qwest, who offered to help me negotiate the best possible package. I was an instant believer in the power of women’s networks! (I received offers at two of the three law firms and negotiated an extra $20k on my job contract. I chose Qwest.)

That was my first eye-opener. The second was a less than positive experience, but equally valuable to my career path. During my tenure at Qwest, a palpable shift in my perceived value came with my first pregnancy. I was stunned when my boss, also a woman, shared news that over her objections the executive team was removing me from consideration for long-term succession planning. During a closed-door meeting, top company brass said, “Let’s take her off the list; she won’t come back from her maternity leave.” Ouch. That was in 2003.

That experience would define me and ultimately changed my course. I had already taken a leadership class at a women’s organization Steffie had founded, but would now double down, taking nearly every class they had and volunteering in every role, from staffing name-tag tables to eventually becoming the board chair. With a passion for moving women’s careers forward, I would move on from mergers and acquisitions to do more meaningful consulting work, helping build non-profits across the country.

In 2015 a friend suggested I consider applying for a new position at the University of Denver as the Dean of Colorado Women’s College. I was drawn to the opportunity to lead the re-imagination of what a higher education institution can do in the space of equity and women’s advancement in particular. I’m working at the intersection of my passions and my skill set, and loving every minute!

Can you share the most interesting story that happened to you since you began this career?

I’m someone who likes to make big bets. At Qwest, I was working to close a deal with Microsoft, and my colleague, Jim, was working to close a deal with IBM. During one staff meeting, after I announced my first pregnancy, Jim, in front of our all-male team, bet me dinner that I could not close my deal before I had the baby. I was embarrassed he had brought my pregnancy into the conversation in that way, but I took the bet with one amendment. If he closed his deal before I closed mine, I would take him and his wife to dinner. But, if I closed my deal first, he would wear my pregnancy pants to work. Several weeks later, he wore the pants into that weekly meeting!

Can you share a story about the funniest or most interesting mistake you made when you were first starting?

If being naïve is a mistake, this would be my first: As a young professional in Paris, I accepted some pretty bizarre practices, writing them off as “cultural differences” and accepting as they say too often in French, “parce que c’est comme ça” (because that’s the way it is). Some of them were cultural practices, like male partners asking every female associate to dance at the holiday party — no groping, but it still made me uncomfortable! Other gender-based patterns emerged like who was assigned to which case, who got an assistant and who didn’t, who did the shopping for the weekly wine and cheese, who translated documents (boring!) and who got invited to meetings. It was actually my husband who pointed out to me “Don’t you see you’re spending time translating and not negotiating because you’re a woman?” I refused to believe it until it became so obvious that I couldn’t deny it.

Another gender-biased experience happened related to benefits: Many of us got an annual trip home to the US. The first year I heard that all of the American men had submitted their wives’ airline tickets for reimbursement. So, in my second year I expensed my husband’s ticket along with mine, without thinking much of it. I received a note back from our finance department that read:

Dear Ann,

We are happy to reimburse your ticket, but we will not reimburse your husband’s ticket as we assume you followed him to France and that he has his own benefits package.

I wrote back:

Dear Human Resources,

I assume you don’t want me to forward this clearly sexist email to the managing partner.

They paid for both tickets. (And, for the record, I finished law school before my husband finished business school, so he had actually followed me to France!)

Can you tell us what lesson you learned from that?

It’s in my nature to assume positive intent. It elevates my attitude, changes others’ attitudes and makes for more productive interactions. Faced with this pattern of bad behavior, and explaining it away for quite some time, taught me that there are toxic people who behave badly in this world, and oppressive systems and situations in which we all find ourselves. Today, I still hold myself to a standard of assuming positive intent, but I also keep my eyes open and draw the line when I believe others are taking advantage of me, or those in my circle. I am decidedly protective of people who are marginalized and oppressed, and have developed an ability to evolve our beliefs and behaviors in a way that benefits all involved.

Let’s turn now to the focus of our interview. Even in 2019, women still earn about 80 cents for every dollar a man makes. Can you explain three of the main factors that are causing the wage gap?

The Motherhood Penalty: The economic penalty women face for having children is stubborn and isn’t going anywhere. Maybe you’ve seen the new series gaining popularity on Bravo, “In a Man’s World”? In one episode it demonstrates the motherhood penalty with an eye-opening social experiment. An aspiring politician looking to understand her recent city council election loss teams up with an academy award-winning special effects make-up crew that transforms her into a man. She gives identical campaign speeches to the same audience, as herself and then again as a man. Despite both characters referencing family, the crowd focused its questions for the woman candidate around how she’ll balance her responsibilities at home, where the questions for the man remained focused on the political office. Even more maddening, fathers are rewarded in the workplace for having children in a way that’s out of reach for women. A study by the national think tank Third Way provides data for this dynamic: Women face a wage penalty of 4 percent associated with each child they have, while men can experience a 6 percent bump in pay. This is on top of existing gender-based disparities. So motherhood — even where it’s perceived — entails a relative 10 percent penalty for women!

We Don’t Share Unpaid Care: The global consulting firm McKinsey & Company estimates that women provide a whopping 75 percent of unpaid care in the world. That’s a tremendous physical, emotional and mental burden women bring to the workplace. Until we shift and share more unpaid care with men, the wage and leadership gaps cannot be closed.

We’re Wired to Think Men Should Earn More: For all the progress we’ve made, gender stereotypes, biases and systems still inform our beliefs and behaviors. We need to keep pushing ourselves to broaden our perspectives, to be empathetic, to be conscious of our unconscious. And we need to be willing to change. I’m always curious about what motivates change. In the area of diversity, equity and inclusion, I see the most progress when organizations understand and believe in the business case as well as the moral case, and when their leaders have spent time thinking about why this work matters — personally — to them.

Can you share with our readers what your work is doing to help close the gender wage gap?

The Colorado Women’s College offers a Women Leadership Scholars program, primarily for first-generation college women. So first and foremost we’re teaching these scholars to be leaders and teammates who demand and deliver equity.

Beyond that, we’re launching new and innovative programs we’re calling Equity Labs. This work is based on two big bets. The first is the realization that the way to solve gender equity at work is to look at how we view gender equity outside of work — because equity can’t be achieved anywhere until we’re delivering it everywhere. We’re bringing new awareness, language and action to personal spheres by asking questions like: How do we balance unpaid care more evenly between men and women? How do we create more opportunities for empathy, connection and support?

The second bet relates to the need to take the notion of inclusivity and blow it open. It’s not about benchmarking, best practices, or even raising awareness of unconscious biases. All of those start with the problem. Instead, we want to start from a place of what’s possible. We’re using the University of Denver’s nationally-recognized expertise in experiential education to create a curriculum that teaches people how to be inclusive. We’re focused on behavior and change. We’re looking to override the neuropathways that lead us to favor that which is known and similar and invite that which is unknown and diverse because we believe it’s better for people, and for business. We aim to help people develop reflexes and habits that ensure inclusive behavior because we know diversity, equity and inclusion are ultimately good for business, the community and the soul.

Can you recommend 5 things that need to be done on a broader societal level to close the gender wage gap? Please share a story or example for each.

1. Ask the question! The silver bullet in this lies with jobseekers. Imagine if every time someone applies for a job, they ask about the organization’s pay equity policies. I coach people on asking this in three ways:

• Values-based: “Values alignment is really important to me when I’m looking at an employer. I can tell that you have (insert the values you’ve researched on their website). I am wondering how, in practice, you apply those values to compensation.”

• Societal context: “Pay equity is getting so much press and attention these days. What do you think about all the various statistics and policy suggestions?”

• Straightforward: “Could you tell me how your company ensures pay equity?”

Similar to the way we credit millennials with changing how organizations take interest in and even ownership of work-life balance, this new generation (all of us, really) can shift the market on this.

2. Be transparent! There are many job sites now that allow people to post and see salaries. If employers would own this transparency, instead of letting it fall to the employees, it would greatly enhance the trust people have in organizations to be paying fairly. In my first role working abroad, there were rumors among the associates in the firm that we were underpaid vis-à-vis our counterparts in the States with the same degrees, billing the same hours, doing the same work. Had the firm been willing to engage with me and others on this issue, they might not have lost a full class of female associates, which represented a huge knowledge drain to the firm. The reality is that these conversations go on whether or not the employer is part of them. It’s unwise, and perhaps even irresponsible, not to be in it with our employees.

3. Build Awareness. We’re currently bringing awareness to issues of pay equity by highlighting Equal Pay Day, the symbolic day when women’s earnings “catch up” to men’s earnings from the previous year. The date usually falls in late March or April for Asian and white women. For women of color, the dates are much later in the year — August for Black women, September for Native American women and November for Latinas. Five days a year is not enough, and we’re not engaging all the people we need as allies in this work. What if we added one week a year where men would wear shirts that said, “Pay her what you pay me. She’s worth it, too.” #payhertoo

4. Use Humor. Using humor is an accessible way to engage people in conversation, especially on tough subjects. A video I came across recently cracks me up and serves as an example. A colleague suspended a presentation 82% of the way through with a slide that says, “Pay equity: To unlock the rest of the presentation, I’ll need another $21,282.” She made everyone laugh while making a powerful point. I also remember working with a guy who used to put his hand up in my face when he would man-splain. Worst ever. I once reached out and gave him a high five when he did it. The whole room, including him, cracked up. He got the point and never did it again.

5. Get Educated and Be Brave. Leaders, I’m talking to you. Know your biases, know your culture, know your policies, know your numbers. Make the changes that the best leaders make. It’s worth the investment. The best-known example of this is Mark Benihoff at SalesForce, who directed six million dollars over two years to correct pay disparities revealed in a company audit. But I’ve seen others. CEO Kent Thiry set big public goals about equity in leadership at DaVita. These bold moves change lives, and they’re good for business.

6. I’m putting in a 6th category here because I want to say something specific about men’s role in this. Men: be bolder. It’s crucial. And, it will benefit men as well as women. In many ways, men are constrained by these biased systems as well. Championing flexibility for women has proven over and over again to result in flexibility and benefits for all. (Think about it, we have the Family Medical Leave Act, not the Women’s Medical Leave Act!) I’m also seeing more and more women’s organizations trying to get men on board by talking about dads and daughters. “Support pay equity so that your daughter can be paid what she’s worth.” It’s a conversation that’s taking flight, but it’s incomplete and insulting. We are all someone’s daughter. We want you to advocate for us as wives, partners, colleagues, mothers and friends. Don’t just do it for your daughters; this is bigger than that. You are bolder than that.

You’re a person of great influence. If you could inspire a movement that would bring the most amount of good to the most amount of people, what would that be? You never know what your idea can trigger. 🙂

I’m apprehensive about the tone, pace and length of conversations today. The 24-hour news cycle, identity politics, Twitter, hashtags — they’re tearing our communities apart and are wearing on our souls. As human beings, we have the compassion to hold multiple perspectives, the patience to consider and reconsider, and the sophistication to think and feel at the same time. As leaders, we need to step up and call for these changes. We must stop undermining our ability to reason, negotiate and compromise and do the right things by reducing our communications to soundbites and headlines.

At the University of Denver, our community wants to change the narrative. I’m co-chairing a campus-wide community-building initiative designed to align our beliefs and behaviors, turn up the volume on community conversations and right-size the negative narratives that paralyze and polarize us. I’d love for this to be a global model for how communities of the 21st century can take back their narratives — this isn’t just about one campus or one student body, it’s about the future of humanity.

The movement will drive connections. We’ll meet people where they are. We’ll assume positive intent. We’ll listen, hear and have “the meeting in the meeting”. No pocket vetoes. We’ll speak what’s in our hearts and we know that when people do that courageously, we’ll generate great respect. Connection will drive interdisciplinary work where we welcome and explore the intersections. It will create more innovative curriculum, more impactful partnerships with the private and public sectors. Through this work, our faculty, employees and students will be uniquely capable of facing the really tough stuff the world is seeing today, and doing it by bringing people together to stick together.

Can you please give us your favorite “Life Lesson Quote”? Can you share how that was relevant to you in your life?

“The beginning of awe is wonder, and the beginning of wisdom is awe.” (A. J. Heschel) It reminds me to call on my curiosity when I need to make a decision. The best leaders I’ve known haven’t been great because of the decisions they’ve made. They’ve made a difference because of the great questions they’ve asked.

We’re very blessed that some of the biggest names in Business, VC funding, Sports and Entertainment read this column. Is there a person in the world, or in the US whom you would love to have a private breakfast or lunch with, and why? He or she might see this, especially if we tag them. 🙂

Ariana Huffington is one of the bravest leaders I know. She uses her social and business capital for good and isn’t afraid to rumble with the tough stuff. The Colorado Women’s College is taking a different approach to advancing equity. We’re onto something big with our research and experiential education. I’m sure she’d have ideas about how to accelerate and amplify our work.

Meghan Markle and Prince Harry are doing incredible work as a team and as individuals. They care about equity and they walk that talk, even within their own small family. We need to push past the stagnation we’re seeing on pay equity numbers and numbers of women in leadership roles at work. I have a hunch that the solution for these challenges at work might just lie at home. I’d love their thought partnership on how equity at home can drive equity in the rest of life.

Thank you for all of these great insights!


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“A true leader doesn’t ever judge”, with Model Marianne Fonseca and Candice Georgiadis

Leadership in my opinion, is an attitude of being 100% selfless. Leaders help care for people’s needs and put the wellbeing of others before their own.
Also, a true leader doesn’t ever judge. They understand everyone’s unique journeys in order to help guide them.

I had the pleasure of interviewing model Marianne Fonseca. Brazilian born model, Marianne Fonseca, has a resume most models could only dream of. From being featured in editorials for top publications including Elle, Harper’s Bazaar, Maxim, and Cosmopolitan to walking the runway for designers including Dior and Timberland. In addition to modeling, Marianne is extremely passionate about helping children in need and went on her 4th mission trip to Uganda in October 2019. Marianne is currently signed with Ford Models in New York, Next Models in LA and Miami, Fashion Model Management in Milan, MGM Models in Germany and Way Model Management in Brazil.

Thank you so much for doing this with us! Can you tell us a story about what brought you to this specific career path?

For as long as I can remember, I have always wanted to help people in need through missionary work. My mom raised me to be very generous. When I was a kid, she used to volunteer at an organization that provides support for people with AIDS. She then became the director of a local orphanage in our city, so she had taught me the importance of helping others from a young age. In general, I have always admired people like Angelina Jolie, who would choose to help the world without any obligations.

Can you share the most interesting story that happened to you since you began leading your company or organization?

I don’t lead the organization I work with, but I really value being a part of it. The church is called Churchome and it was founded by the lead pastor Judah Smith`s parents in Seattle. The church offers many programs, one of which is the mission trips lead by pastor Joanne Ramos. Since I started doing mission trips, the most interesting thing I’ve experienced is how people can work together to do beautiful things without having known each other prior (we mostly get to meet the other volunteers only a couple months before the trips). I am also amazed at how easy it is to adapt to circumstances, like housing and roommates, lack of sleep, not eating what you are normally used to etc; you just come together as a group for a bigger cause and forget all the little things that normally annoy you back at home. It’s a supernatural thing and something I have experienced each trip I have participated in. It’s real proof that we can be so civil and loving when we come together for something greater than ourselves.

Can you share a story about the funniest mistake you made when you were first starting? Can you tell us what lesson you learned from that?

I am new to mission trips; this is only my 4th time going on one. I think the biggest mistakes I have made so far had to do with language barriers. Since English is not my mother tongue, I have made some funny mistakes when talking in public or even praying for others and not seeming to find the right words. Most of the times its funny and I learn for the future, but most importantly I have learned to not fear speaking in public and to not be ashamed of my accent.

Can you describe how you or your organization is making a significant social impact?

Our church gets involved in a many different areas in numerous countries. From what I have experienced and seen, I know that they are making a big difference by providing the inhabitants of Kampala, Uganda with a better quality of life.

In Sri Lanka, where I have volunteered twice, we worked to provide protection to single mothers and their children, since domestic violence is very common and it happens to almost every Srilankan woman. Some of them have nowhere to go and by running away from their husbands, they are no longer accepted at home by their own families. We help by providing them with temporary housing and food We also work on their reintegration in society, we have classes to teach them basic jobs like baking, sewing etc.

Our church is also very close to the organization A21 against human trafficking and slavery, which has done a lot of work in helping to recover victims and arrest criminals convicted for human trafficking.

Can you tell me a story about a particular individual who was impacted by your cause?

My pastor, Joanne Ramos, has always been an inspiration to me. As a young adult, she was lost and involved with drugs etc, but she turned her life around and became a believer of Jesus through a very beautiful story. For 20 years now she has led one trip per month in 12 different countries, doing a beautiful job in helping humanity. It impacts me to think that someone who is broken can be “born again“ and then do so much good in the world. It made me realize that no matter how broken we are inside, it is still possible to get out of that situation and change ourselves and even change the world around us. It gives me a lot of hope.

Are there three things the community/society/politicians can do help you address the root of the problem you are trying to solve?

As a church community, we are trying to bring the Jesus’s message across the world and help in any way we can. Every country has their own different needs. Often times, the root of the problems we are trying to solve (such as human trafficking, basic sanitation, right to education etc.) are linked to a deep political situation, a lack of financial resources, or corruption, bribes and criminals. Which makes it almost impossible to fight against a whole system. As I’m writing this, I get really concerned as to where our world is going and how we need to rethink about our real priorities. Why do we tend to be so selfish and not care to look at our neighbors? Shouldn’t they also be given the chance to live happily in this world? I say we can all do better. We can all push ourselves and go out of our comfort zones for others like we would want done for ourselves. You don’t need to look far to find someone in need, there’s always a chance someone in your community is in a worse position than you.

How do you define “Leadership”? Can you explain what you mean or give an example?

Leadership in my opinion, is an attitude of being 100% selfless. Leaders help care for people’s needs and put the wellbeing of others before their own.
Also, a true leader doesn’t ever judge. They understand everyone’s unique journeys in order to help guide them.

What are your “5 things I wish someone told me when I first started” and why. Please share a story or example for each.

There isn’t really anything I wish I knew before, as these trips are so special and beautiful and have taught me so much. You end up getting so much more out of helping others than the people you are actually helping sometimes. It surprises me how close you get to everyone involved and I really wish I started doing these trips earlier, that’s the only thing I wish someone told me.

You are a person of enormous influence. If you could inspire a movement that would bring the most amount of good to the most amount of people, what would that be? You never know what your idea can trigger. 🙂

I think we already have an answer to that — love others and treat others like you would like to be treated. I know this is very cliché, but it is the underlying truth to bringing change to the world. As humans, we tend to have a selfish nature, but I believe that if we truly invested time in loving others like we love ourselves, the world would become a much more perfect place.

Can you please give us your favorite “Life Lesson Quote”? Can you share how that was relevant to you in your life?

Live in the moment. I often spend so much time worrying about the future and used to have anxiety about things that haven’t even happened yet. I have learned to control myself and to focus on the `now` and just take it one day at a time. It’s surprising how much happier you can be when you live each day to the fullest.

Is there a person in the world, or in the US whom you would love to have a private breakfast or lunch with, and why? He or she might just see this, especially if we tag them. 🙂

yes, Melinda Gates

How can our readers follow you on social media?

instagram @marianne_fonseca

facebook mariane fonseca prado

This was very meaningful, thank you so much!


“A true leader doesn’t ever judge”, with Model Marianne Fonseca and Candice Georgiadis was originally published in Authority Magazine on Medium, where people are continuing the conversation by highlighting and responding to this story.

5 Things We Need To Do To Close The Gender Wage Gap, with Kelly Hollingsworth and Candice…

5 Things We Need To Do To Close The Gender Wage Gap, with Kelly Hollingsworth and Candice Georgiadis

Women are uncomfortable receiving more money than they think is reasonable. That internal ceiling called reasonableness is the real glass ceiling. It’s the thing we have to bust through to close the wage gap. When we conquer it, all the other ceilings will come crashing down as well.

As part of my series about “the five things we need to do to close the gender wage gap” I had the pleasure of interviewing Kelly Hollingsworth. Kelly is one of the few women in the world to manage her own hedge fund. She has a lot to say about how women can succeed in male-dominated industries. She also wants women to know that making money is a whole lot of fun. You can get more of her money-making advice at kellyhollingsworth.com.

Thank you so much for joining us! Can you tell us the “backstory” that brought you to this career path?

My mom delivered newspapers to support me and my two sisters. We didn’t own a working television. We gathered scrap wood from abandoned logging sites to heat our house. I used Crisco as a lip balm when all my friends had Bonne Bell Lip Smackers.

My first job was cleaning houses for $5 an hour. I was poor, but I pined for big diamonds. I wanted to trade my grimy rubber gloves for opera-length silk gloves. Making more money became my mission in life.

I put myself through college working at a steakhouse in Missoula, Montana. I generally ate free salad bar and baked potatoes. But once in a while, I feasted on king crab legs from the plates of spendthrift patrons who didn’t ask for a doggie bag.

A co-worker’s sister was a hedge fund regulator in Chicago. I had no idea what a hedge fund was, but I parlayed that one contact into my first job. I packed up a U-Haul and headed to the Windy City. I’d never encountered a toll booth before, and I remember panicking that I didn’t have enough change.

I bought a purple skirt suit with big shoulder pads and reported for work. I made $27,000 a year answering questions of hedge fund attorneys who earned a thousand dollars an hour. In these conversations, I noticed something striking. The male attorneys would take on work, and then call and ask me how to do the work. The female attorneys were different. They were already experts, and their questions were minor.

The men seemed to have most of the clients, so I guessed they were making most of the money. I took a lesson from their playbook, and decided to get out there and start earning, even if I didn’t feel ready.

I left the regulatory agency for a job on the for-profit side of the industry. I doubled my salary by asking for the biggest number I could say with a straight face.

I thought I’d hit my income ceiling, but then something amazing happened. Another hedge fund asked my employer if they could “borrow” me for a couple of weeks. They agreed to pay my employer three times what my employer was paying me, but I wasn’t going to receive one dime extra. My employer was going to pay me my regular salary, and pocket the difference.

This didn’t sit well with me. If there was extra money to be made from my skills, I was the one who was going to make it. So I quit my job, hung out a shingle, and began my practice as a legal and business advisor to hedge fund managers.

My income skyrocketed. My life changed. But I was concerned about other women who were struggling. One of my friends was a lawyer with Ivy-League degrees and amazing credentials. She was working as in-house counsel at a hedge fund, but earning less than a well-paid secretary.

This was in sharp contrast to the hedge fund managers — all men — that I worked with. They weren’t bothered by what they didn’t know. Sometimes this paid off for them, but often, it was the cause of their downfall.

I began to see under earning for men and women as the flipside of a single coin. When men under earn, it’s because they think they know a lot, when they actually know very little. When women under earn, it’s because they think they know too little, when they actually know a lot.

My lawyer friend who was earning a secretary’s salary was the first woman I coached on making more money. When she stopped mentally discounting her own skills, she quadrupled her salary. That was the beginning of my coaching practice for women who under earn.

Can you share the most interesting story that happened to you since you began this career?

One of my most meaningful stories is how I started my own hedge fund.

Early in my career, I set out to find the best undiscovered trading talent. In that search, I found a gifted trader who had an impressive history of day-trading the S&P 500. He earned a very stable income doing something that most people consider very risky.

He wanted to try his hand at trading “other people’s money” and I agreed to raise it for him. I was living in the Virgin Islands at the time. I was the only female partner in my firm, and my male partners said I was wasting my time. But I saw brilliance in his skills. I gathered up all the cash I had and started a little hedge fund. With only my money in the fund, I hired him as the trader, and I sat back and watched the profits roll in.

The first month I made money. The second month I made money. The third month I made money. Pretty soon, my naysaying partners were asking, “What is this fund you started? Can I get into it?”

They invested, too, and that’s how I became one of the few women in the world to manage her own hedge fund.

What I learned from this is that most people will tell you not to act on your great idea. If you wait for a cheerleader for your money-making efforts, you’ll be waiting a long time. You don’t get the cheerleaders until after you start making money.

Can you share a story about the funniest or most interesting mistake you made when you were first starting? Can you tell us what lesson you learned from that?

The biggest mistake I made was closing my hedge fund.

It was kicking out consistent income for me, so I moved back to North Idaho intending to buy a waterfront house and write novels about my adventures in finance.

I bought a tear-down on the water that I intended to rebuild. Then my trader told me he was done trading other people’s money. He wanted to go back to just trading for himself.

In my mind, this meant that my business was over. I built the fund around his skill, and I thought that without his skill, the fund was doomed. I called up my investors and told them I was sending their money home.

So there I was, in my waterfront teardown with a giant mortgage and no income. The monthly payment felt like a gut punch. Then the housing market crashed. I couldn’t sell and I couldn’t rebuild. The house had no heating system, so I spent the first winter dragging space heaters around from room to room.

Initially, I blamed the end of my income on my trader’s decision to quit. I was a victim in the classic sense of the word.

But then I realized the end of my income was not his fault. My income ended not because my trader quit, but because of my thoughts about him quitting. I thought he was irreplaceable.

If I could go back in time, I would tell my thirty-something self not to shut down that fund. I would tell her that opportunities are like cockroaches. Where there’s one, there’s two. Where there’s two, there’s four. You just have to look for them, because often they’re not in plain sight.

The fact is that my brilliant S&P trader didn’t just fall out of the sky. I went looking for someone like him, and I found him. If I could do it once, I could do it again. I could have hired someone else to trade the money. I didn’t see that at the time, so instead of keeping my hedge fund going, I closed it. My mind was closed to my opportunities, and that closed off the income I was earning from my fund.

Ok let’s jump to the main focus of our interview. Even in 2019, women still earn about 80 cents for every dollar a man makes. Can you explain three of the main factors that are causing the wage gap?

When we talk about the wage gap, we generally talk about factors outside women’s control. We discuss blatant sexism. We discuss rich white guys hiring, mentoring, and promoting other rich white guys. We envision them running in a pack. They wear the same suits, drive the same cars, and drink the same scotch. We feel left out.

None of this is helpful. If someone else is the problem, someone else is in control of the solution. Commerce is a self-centered place. If we’re waiting for someone else to help us make more money, we might never close the wage gap.

So I’d like to discuss three factors that are wholly within each woman’s control. When women focus on correcting what they can correct, each woman’s personal wage gap takes care of itself. And if each individual wage gap closes, eventually we no longer have a wage gap.

Factor #1

Feeling Bad About Money

How a woman feels about money, and her role in earning it, accurately predict how much money she’ll earn.

Does money feel like a big gray cloud, or a dose of bright yellow sunshine? Is money a board room or a birthday party? Is earning an obligation or a celebration? Does making money feel foreign or familiar? Does it taste like shortening or champagne?

This is where I start in my coaching practice, because all of this affects what women earn. When women feel better about making money, they make more money.

Factor #2

Working for Non-Cash Compensation

Another wedge in the wage gap is that many women work for non-cash compensation. They would rather be well-liked than well-paid. Often, they’d rather learn than earn. They give up cash for a flexible work schedule, a shorter commute, or the ability to work from home. “Security” also is a bugaboo for women. I once coached a woman earning $60,000 year, when she could have been making $600,000. She accepted the low compensation because at $60,000 a year, she knew they’d never fire her.

I teach women that they can have all of these side benefits, plus cash. This revelation helps women generate a lot more revenue.

Factor #3

Discounting Your Skills and Expertise

When women discount their skills and expertise, they create a domino effect of under earning. They ask for less. They earn less. They collect credentials instead of cash. They also shy away from the bigger jobs and the bigger paydays.

This domino effect of under-earning halts when a woman stops discounting what she knows and what she can do.

We Don’t Need an Act of Congress to Fix These Problems

Women are 100% in control of fixing each of these under-earning factors. When women stop doing the things that cause them to under earn, they start making money. Each woman has the power to close her own personal wage gap.

Can you share with our readers what your work is doing to help close the gender wage gap?

By day, I’m the CEO of a hedge fund. In my evening and weekend hours, I am a coach for women who want to make more money.

These roles may seem very different, but they’re actually quite similar.

Hedge fund management is about seeing obstacles as opportunities. At my firm, a falling stock market is never a problem, because we short the market and make money from the decline. Our performance is never about the market. It’s always about what we’re thinking about the market.

It’s exactly the same for women. What a woman earns or doesn’t earn is never about the market she’s working in. It’s always about what she’s thinking about that market.

Here’s an example. One of my first jobs was at the Chicago Mercantile Exchange. The escalator coming down from the trading floor was like a Pez dispenser of men. But never did I think that I was in a “male-dominated” industry. My thought was that I was in a “male-populated” industry.

That subtle difference in my thinking made all the difference in my experience. When a woman thinks her environment is “male-dominated,” what happens? She generally hangs back and allows men to dominate. I never did that. Even in meetings filled with men, I was the alpha. My thoughts about my situation were far more important than the situation itself.

Women are exactly like hedge fund managers. They’re much more in control of their earnings than they often realize. I help women see how much control they have over what they earn. As a result, women who work with me routinely double, triple, or quadruple their incomes.

Can you recommend 5 things that need to be done on a broader societal level to close the gender wage gap. Please share a story or example for each.

Step 1

Let’s fix the wage gap ourselves

Let’s stop waiting for a societal solution. If we wait for society to solve this problem, we will continue to feel angry, powerless, and underpaid.

I’m all for a level playing field. But I also want women to know that they can make more money without one. All it takes is the right mindset, the right message, and some effective strategy.

Every “disadvantage” can become an advantage that puts more cash in your pocket.

Here’s an example from my own life. We think of hedge funds as the ultimate insiders’ game. But I succeeded in that business as an outsider. I was a hayseed from North Idaho who knew no one. My lack of connections played to my advantage because I could tell my clients what no one else was willing to say. This blatant honesty is a big reason I’ve never had a problem finding clients.

No matter what’s happening, I’m going to make money, and I teach the women I coach to function the same way. It’s not that I don’t care about injustice. I definitely do. But I’ve realized that getting angry is far less effective than getting paid.

Step 2

Don’t Apologize for Making More than a Man

Women must lose the opinion that it’s wrong or unnatural to make more than a man.

Women live longer. We’re more likely to need extensive long-term care. The cost to insure for that care is higher. We spend more time out of the workforce. We still do the lion’s share of childcare and housework. Our personal care is more expensive. Botox, blowouts and Balenciaga blouses come with a high price tag, not just in terms of money but also the time those things require. Many of these things no longer feel optional.

So the fact is that women need to earn more money than men, and we need to do so in less time.

We need this even if we don’t have kids. I was injured while hiking on the Pacific Crest Trail. For three years I was largely unable to sit, stand, or walk. But because I earn a high hourly rate, I was still able to earn a high income even though I was able to work very few hours.

This ability is something every woman needs, and this is what I help women achieve.

Step 3

Let It Be Easy

Women who under earn work very hard for their money. So they think that making more money will be even more difficult.

The opposite is what’s actually true. I worked much harder as a waitress than I do as a CEO. In my restaurant days, I was often required to work when I was ill. I had little or no control over my schedule. I dealt with people I’d rather not have had to deal with. I had to keep going even when I was exhausted. All of this unpleasantness fell away when I started making more money. Now that I’m a CEO, I experience none of that.

Bottom line: The more money a woman earns, the easier her life becomes. She gets more sleep. She eats better food. Her house is cleaner. Her car is nicer (and more reliable). She has money for her own hobbies. She has room to dream. She works less, and worries less. She has more help. She feels more secure. We need to spread the word on this. Women who under earn are always telling me that it will be too difficult to make more money. This is a lie that keeps women under earning.

Step 4

Break the Rules

Girls are trained to follow rules far more than boys. Women who want to make more money must let go of this training, because an ineffective rule is a nose ring that leads them away from money.

Here’s a rule I teach women to break. Many “experts” tell women not to ask for more money until their client or employer is flush with cash. If times are tight, the advice is that women should sit tight and wait.

Advice like this causes women to under earn, so I teach women to disregard it. When women decide that someone else’s cash flow problem is not their problem, they start getting paid.

Step 5

Learn to Receive

Recently, I gave one of our female contractors an unsolicited raise. She told me that she didn’t deserve more money and she listed the reasons. She was slower. She wasn’t as experienced. She was older. She needed more breaks.

None of this was true. She’s one of our best-performing contractors. Reliable. Timely. Efficient. We get great value in that relationship and we wanted to pay her more money to keep her around.

Against her wishes to receive less, I had to insist on paying her more.

This is not a conversation I’ve ever had with a man, but I have it with women all the time. Why? Because women are uncomfortable receiving more money than they think is reasonable. That internal ceiling called reasonableness is the real glass ceiling. It’s the thing we have to bust through to close the wage gap. When we conquer it, all the other ceilings will come crashing down as well.

You are a person of great influence. If you could inspire a movement that would bring the most amount of good to the most amount of people, what would that be? You never know what your idea can trigger. 🙂

My mission is for each woman to realize that what she earns is wholly within her control. We could wait for “society” to provide us with pay parity, or we can roll up our sleeves and grab it for ourselves. The latter is far more empowering and effective. It’s also much more fun. Underearning women think that making money is going to be a tough slog. In reality, making money is a party. I want every woman to know that she’s invited.

Can you please give us your favorite “Life Lesson Quote”? Can you share how that was relevant to you in your life?

A friend’s wealthy grandfather used to tell us that there are three rules for success in life:

1. Always begin at the beginning.

2. Always conduct yourself as a lady.

3. Buy low, sell high.

I don’t know about the first two rules, but the last one has always served me well.

We are very blessed that some of the biggest names in Business, VC funding, Sports, and Entertainment read this column. Is there a person in the world, or in the US whom you would love to have a private breakfast or lunch with, and why? He or she might see this, especially if we tag them. 🙂

Dr. Michael J. Burry is a personal idol. He’s the physician-turned-hedge fund manager depicted in the movie The Big Short. He foresaw the housing crisis, and famously shorted the sub-prime mortgage market.

His investors thought he was reckless and turned against him. But he stuck to his guns and made millions for them. Meeting him would be a dream come true. I love people who think differently. I’m also drawn to people who aren’t afraid to take an unpopular position when it’s the right thing to do.

This was really meaningful! Thank you so much for your time.

Thank you for having me. I love talking about how women can make more money.


5 Things We Need To Do To Close The Gender Wage Gap, with Kelly Hollingsworth and Candice… was originally published in Authority Magazine on Medium, where people are continuing the conversation by highlighting and responding to this story.

Boston University Questrom School of Business Dean Susan Fournier: “Here Are 5 Things We Need To Do

Boston University Questrom School of Business Dean Susan Fournier: “Here Are 5 Things We Need To Do To Close The Gender Wage Gap”

Here is what’s really interesting. Wag gaps are most significant in high skilled occupations, where we control, if you will, for the differences in occupation choices between men and women. This implicates something deeper is going on.

As part of my series about “the five things we need to do to close the gender wage gap” I had the pleasure of interviewing Susan Fournier. Susan is the Allen Questrom Professor and Dean at Boston University Questrom School of Business. She joined the faculty at Questrom in 2005 as an Associate Professor of Marketing and Dean’s Research Fellow. In the ensuing years, she advanced through the faculty ranks and was named Questrom Professor in Management in 2013. She has been an influential member of the community in her varied roles as an educator, researcher, and administrator.

Thank you so much for joining us Dean Fournier! Can you share the most interesting story that happened to you since you began leading your company?

I am now leading as Dean of the Questrom School of Business. I am the first academic dean in 40 years and the School’s first woman dean. The announcement of my appointment brought many media interviews, and everyone wanted to ask me about one thing: what’s it like to be the first woman dean of the business school? I was so taken aback. It never occurred to me that people would be interested in my demographic. Gender has never been a defining aspect of my identity, nor has it played a prominent role in my career as an academic, consultant, or professional. This is not to say that gender has not been an element: I was the only woman among 29 faculty in the Harvard Business School marketing department during my tenure there. Don’t get me wrong, I have mentors who are women and aspire to be a mentor for other women. But I look forward to the day when no one asks about me as a woman dean and, rather, simply asks about me as a Dean.

Can you share a story about the funniest or most interesting mistake you made when you were first starting? Can you tell us what lesson you learned from that?

One story comes to mind as I think about when I started as dean of BU Questrom and oddly enough, it has to do with office space. For 14 years, I spent hours upon hours in my faculty office, working amongst my peers. When I was appointed dean, I didn’t want to leave my office. I thrive on collaboration and being in the middle the action, so the thought of going to a stodgy, oak-littered office for perception sake wasn’t something I was interested in. Frankly, I also loved my view of the Charles River in Boston. I loved seeing the sunset and having a clear view of our beautiful city. This was hard-won real estate: it took me 8 years to get that office.

My predecessors had two very different approaches. One, a very traditional, mahogany-laden executive suite and the other, a tiny fishbowl. I never thought of an office as a representation of a personal brand up until now. All I could think of at that time was giving up an office with a great view and no longer sitting among my department colleagues.

It took me a full year to move. The more I thought about it, the more I came to realize that my reluctance about moving to a “dean’s office” was in part a reflection of my reluctance to leave my 26-year old faculty identify behind, plus a bit of uncertainty about my statement of self in the new dean role. Fast forward and I now have space that is emblematic of who I am and how I operate in my position — approachable, collaborative, creative, and accessible.

What’s funny about this story is that it took me going on vacation for all of this to take place. The team was hard at work putting together the new space, and while I was on vacation (still fighting the move frankly), they moved me in. My office is now in the center of the building, with a wide glass wall open to the entire floor, an en-suite conference room, and a standing desk. Lot’s goes on in here, and it is all visible to everyone. It’s a reflection of who we are — transparent and open — and who I aspire to be as dean: warm, creative, conducive to collaboration, and always rolling up the sleeves to work with the team.

And oh, my assistant put a live stream of the Charles River on the TV in the conference. So, in the end, I still have my view.

Ok let’s jump to the main focus of our interview. Even in 2019, women still earn about 80 cents for every dollar a man makes. Can you explain three of the main factors that are causing the wage gap?

I’ve seen much empirical research on the extent of and trends in the gender wage gap, some of which is conducted by our faculty here at Boston University Questrom School of Business. In the aggregate, women in 2019 still earn 80 cents for every dollar that a man makes. We also know that the gender pay gap declined much more slowly at the top of the wage distribution that at the middle or the bottom, and is noticeably higher at the top.

What’s going on? Conventional human capital variables like education levels are relatively unimportant and explain little of the gender wage gap. Given that women today are more likely to have a college degree than males, differences in education levels simply do not provide an explanation.

But, even if women have the same education levels as men, women and men choose very different fields / occupations / industries and this is perhaps the main explanation behind the gender wage gap. Women are much more likely to work in occupations that don’t pay that well, for example, teachers, nurses, administration of non-profits, social workers, etc. versus scientists, technologists, mathematicians, entrepreneurs, and business executives. The careers they choose provide inherently different wages.

Here is what’s really interesting. Wag gaps are most significant in high skilled occupations, where we control, if you will, for the differences in occupation choices between men and women. This implicates something deeper is going on.

Socio-cultural differences in gender roles and the gendered division of labor are really drivers of this social problem. Women’s higher demands for household management, childcare, caregiving overall, cooking, etc. leads to them to work fewer hours in the market than men, thereby earning lower wages overall. This effect accumulates. In some occupations like law and management, the fact that women work fewer hours than men prevents them from reaching the top of these occupations, and earning the high wages that these occupations can command.

Because of their gendered social roles as mothers and primary caregivers, women also take more breaks from the labor force than do men. As a result they accumulate less experience. This is very costly in terms of wages.

Lastly, research based on experimental evidence strongly suggests that psychological attributes and non-cognitive skills may also explain some of the differences in wages. Competitiveness, gender differences in risk taking attitudes, and gendered differences in negotiation skills have been implicated. This is not a primary explanation but it’s part of the equation. That these differences are not necessarily from nature, but rather from nurture, further reinforces that societal norms and perceptions are very much in play.

Can you share with our readers what your work is doing to help close the gender wage gap?

Our attention to this issue starts with our hiring practices. We require evidence of a diverse pool in terms of gender balance in order for a search to proceed. We train people on gender and other unconscious biases such that these blindspots are known and actively considered. We are very conscious of gender when making decisions about starting salaries, promotions and pay raises, and merit-based pay increases. We analyze all of our salaries by field of specialization, rank, and gender to make sure that bias is not operating. We set aside a pool of money for “equity adjustments” should we find salary differences that are not explained by experience, productivity, and performance.

Can you recommend 5 things that need to be done on a broader societal level to close the gender wage gap. Please share a story or example for each.

· Better parental leave policies. There is some evidence that paternity leave leads to a more equal share of household work. Maternity leave helps women stay in the labor force.

· High quality, affordable childcare. These services will especially support women in the bottom/middle economic classes.

· Reduce gender biases / gender roles. It goes without saying that efforts to change the cultural and social barriers that keep women out of certain professions, frame childcare as “women’s work,” and perpetuate narratives of fundamental differences between the genders exacerbate the inequality that we see. If we are going to tackle this societal problem, important questions remain. Why do women choose different occupations? Why are they disproportionally responsible for childcare and housekeeping?

· Restructure work such that flexibility does not come at a high cost. For example, OB/GYN professionals restructure their work to practice settings, where schedules are set yet flexible and where women can more readily combine career/family.

· Educational/retraining programs to help women re-enter the workforce after time spent raising or caring for the family.

You are a person of great influence. If you could inspire a movement that would bring the most amount of good to the most amount of people, what would that be? You never know what your idea can trigger. 🙂

I would love to ignite collective consciousness and action around the broader notion of faculty diversity in business higher education. I believe we are all sincerely aligned around the goal of increasing the diversity of our faculty, but I am not sure we share a common foundation around the question of why this matters and therefore how to approach the problem. Too often –and I am simplifying here to make the argument –people take a “check-the-box” mentality and focus their efforts on recruiting different races, genders, or other underrepresented socio-demographics, maybe even checking off two boxes with one hire. But it’s the reasons behind this that matter, and if you ponder that, you quickly get to our responsibility as business educators to represent different world views, different experiences, and different thought-worlds because that is the essential (and, increasingly so) reality of the culture we live in. When faculty recruit and hire, the default (and perhaps unconscious) tendency is go to familiar communities of like-minded scholars and classically-sanctioned “top schools,” and this narrows versus broadens the views brought to bear on scholarly research or content in the classroom. We have a long way to go here — some institutions more than others — and perhaps this shift in mindset can help propel us forward.

Can you please give us your favorite “Life Lesson Quote”? Can you share how that was relevant to you in your life?

Work hard, play hard, live harder. My Dad always touted a philosophy that if you work hard enough, you can reach your goals. But you have to balance that with making sure you allow time and space for the experiences and relationships that bring you true joy. Live every day with balance across these domains and life is rewarding. Life is a gift. A fleeting gift. We can all be gone tomorrow, and we need to be able to say “thank you. that was a good day.”

We are very blessed that some of the biggest names in Business, VC funding, Sports, and Entertainment read this column. Is there a person in the world, or in the US whom you would love to have a private breakfast or lunch with, and why? He or she might see this, especially if we tag them. 🙂

Stephen King. I devour his work have the deepest respect for his writing craft. I’m also thoroughly inspired by his personal story. King was really in a tough place when he first tried breaking into writing: living in a trailer, working multiple jobs to make ends meet and support the family. I read that he and his wife had to borrow clothes for their wedding and had no telephone because it was too expensive. To come from this, and achieve what he has achieved…to me that is the ultimate of inspiration.

King also received innumerable rejection letters for his works along the way, and I find it very inspirational to hear his message about staying the course. As an academic writer I can really relate to this! Five rounds, 14 years, for one paper and sometimes a flat rejection to show for it. In his book On Writing, King shares: “By the time I was 14…the nail in my wall would no longer support the weight of the rejection slips impaled upon it. I replaced the nail with a spike and kept on writing.” That’s an empowering way to face what some may consider to be failure.

This was really meaningful! Thank you so much for your time.


Boston University Questrom School of Business Dean Susan Fournier: “Here Are 5 Things We Need To Do was originally published in Authority Magazine on Medium, where people are continuing the conversation by highlighting and responding to this story.

The Social Impact Heroes of Social Media:”It’s not about perfection, it’s all about progression”…

The Social Impact Heroes of Social Media:”It’s not about perfection, it’s all about progression” with Angelo Liloc and Candice Georgiadis

It’s not about perfection, it’s all about progression. Business, social media, and life in general is about progress. It’s about leveling up and growing into the version of yourself you were meant to become. Sometimes we’re too caught up in making everything perfect, that we fail to see that perfection isn’t about the end goal rather it’s about the process of getting there. Though perfection isn’t achievable, the beauty is in the pursuit.

As a part of my series about social media stars who are using their platform to make a significant social impact, I had the pleasure of interviewing Angelo Liloc. Angelo is the Founder and CEO of Mod3rn Fitness, LLC where he and his team help busy professionals achieve peak performance through fitness, nutrition, and mindset coaching. By leveraging the lessons life beautifully reveals along the way, and utilizing his experience as a law enforcement officer, he’s helping transform hundreds and eventually millions of lives around the world. How? Simply by creating one positive habit at a time.

Thank you so much for doing this with us! Can you tell us a story about what brought you to this specific career path?

After sustaining a career ending injury, I was left confused, depressed, lost, and without any real sense of identity anymore. This lead to one of the darkest times in my life.

I gained a ton of weight to the point where I seriously couldn’t even tie my own shoes because my belly had gotten so large! True story, ask my wife.

With the money I had left, I started an online supplement company. I figured since I had a huge passion for fitness, why not create my own supplement line right? So I invested in something, or I guess I should say someone, I knew would get me a direct ROI (return on investment), myself. Thus, leading to the creation of the Mod3rn Nutrition supplement brand.

At this point, I had barely used social media because I wanted my life to be in the shadows. However, I did see a ton of value that social media would bring to my business and my brand. Long story short, I started an Instagram account and right off the bat I began to use it as a way for me to be the “hero” ex-police officer who’s “been there and done that” and I was there to help people change their lives!

Like many things in life, it takes trial and error.

Though I loved health and fitness, my true passion was in personal development. I loved learning about the mind and why we do the things we do! I began to realize that I still wasn’t happy.

I had so much more to say, but I was worried as to how my followers would react if I just started talking about mindset stuff instead. It was rough because I had built this business and yet, I was still unhappy.

I decided that I needed to speak my truth. I believe I was given this second chance at life and I fully intended on making the most it! So I rebranded my business into Mod3rn Fitness, and transitioned from a product-based business into a service-based brand. By taking my passion for fitness, nutrition, and most importantly mindset, I was able to create a new brand focused on creating an impact!

I began opening up more about things that I kept to myself. I began sharing my true story, both the good and the bad. Social media is like the highlight reel for most people’s lives. They don’t want you to see them at their weak points, they only want to show the best.

This “only showing the best” mentality creates a comparison mindset with the readers/viewers, and the only thing that comes from comparison is unhappiness and dissatisfaction. Instead of social media bringing people together, like it was initially intended to do, it became toxic for a lot of people.

But this wasn’t reality. The comparisons people made were based on what others wanted us to see about their lives, not the actual truth.

Though many told me it was an unpopular route to take, I knew I had to speak my truth.

And that’s exactly what I did and what I’ve continued to do.

Can you share the most interesting story that happened to you since you began this career?

Over time, I began reaching more people who appreciated authenticity and my willingness to share my journey. So much so, that people started sending me direct messages on Instagram thanking me for my transparency and the content I’ve shared

I was amazed at the number of people who actually watched, read, and listened to my content from the shadows. By ‘the shadows’ I meant people who would take in the content but never liked, commented, and/or shared any of it.

I was at the gym locker room getting ready for my workout when this guy approached me out of nowhere and asked, “Hey man, are you Angelo? I follow you on Instagram and I just really want to say thank you for the content you post. I’m going through some relationship stuff right now, and your content helped me work through some thoughts in my head.”

I was so surprised that even though we just met, he quickly opened up like we’ve known each other for a long time. It was such an honor to know that I’m actually able to add value into another person’s life simply by just telling my story.

At this point, I realized that out of all the metrics and data we can track about our followers. The most important piece of data isn’t even recorded. And that number is the amount of lives we’ve been able to change.

We spoke in the locker room for a few more minutes and I shared a few thoughts that came to mind.

He left, and I continued into the gym to get my workout in. I couldn’t help but think about what just happened. A few short years ago, I would’ve never guessed I’d be blessed with this opportunity and platform to truly make a lasting impression on people’s lives.

That’s when I knew, this is exactly where I’m supposed to be.

Can you share a story about the funniest mistake you made when you were first starting? Can you tell us what lesson you learned from that?

It was funny how unreasonably nervous I was in the beginning. I began thinking, “Why the heck would people listen to me anyways? What kind of value would I even add? Nobody wants to hear my story!”

I was so into my own head that I began talking myself out of taking action. Before I knew it, I had talked myself out of it and began looking for other ventures to explore instead. I knew I wanted to make a difference in the world, but I didn’t think myself worthy of such an honor. There was a small point in my life where I tried getting into gaming instead of business.

I figured it was a childhood dream that I can actually now make a living doing! I mean, how hard can it be right? Wrong. Trying to keep up with these young kids in video games was like an old man trying to get into the UFC or something!

Impossible? No. But highly unlikely.

After a short-lived career in gaming, and after several other trial and error career paths that followed afterwards, I realized I was avoiding the truth.

I had to face my fears. I had to talk to my phone camera! I had to share my story on my social media regardless of what negative thoughts I had built up in my head.

Looking back at it all, it’s funny to see how much we let fear control our lives and everyday decisions. The best part is that I don’t regret any of it. I know it all happens for a reason and I wouldn’t be doing what I’m doing without any of those experiences in my past.

Moral of the story, don’t let fear dictate you from taking actions, but even if you do…It’s okay. Either way, it’s okay because it was supposed to happen that way all along. Just embrace the journey, learn from it all, and enjoy the ride life has in store for you!

This is all part of YOUR story.

Ok super. Let’s now jump to the core focus of our interview. Can you describe to our readers how you are using your platform to make a significant social impact?

As liberating as it is to share my story, there is a purpose to it all. Because I feel like I have this second chance, I also feel like it’s my responsibility to help others overcome their setbacks as well. I share my story not just to inspire and make people feel good, but to give a voice to those that may not be able to express themselves for whatever reason.

Whether it’s because they’re afraid, they don’t think they communicate well, their story isn’t worth anything, or even if they just feel alone sometimes. That’s who I do it for.

By simply sharing my ups and downs, my good days and my bad days, whether it’s the popular route or not, I’m hoping someone on the other end receiving the content is finding value. But more importantly, if they could see me, just another hard-working guy trying to doing something great in life, they would see that they could do it to.

So how do I use my platform to make a significant social impact?

I lead by example and share my truth.

Wow! Can you tell us a story about a particular individual who was impacted by this cause?

One of our clients at Mod3rn Fitness, and for the purpose of this article we’ll call her Jane. She was very quiet and stand-offish when we first started talking, but I sensed there was definitely something deeper to her. Overtime, we challenged and pushed her limitations further than she had ever gone before.

Of course there was resistance at first, but she quickly saw the benefits of what we wanted for her. Her husband even told us how long he’s been trying to get her to record a video of herself to share on social media. He literally tried for years to get her to record this video but with no luck. After a few weeks, we challenged her to make a similar video, share it, and get it done within the next 24 hours.

Today, she’s conquered every challenge we’ve thrown her way. Now, she sees the possibilities life holds for her when she attacks her fears and goals head on!

She has become one of our biggest advocates because she experienced what we’re trying to share with the rest of the world.

Jane worked hard, she maintained a consistent work ethic, and she’s seeing what leveling up in life looks and feels like! I’m so proud of her!

Was there a tipping point the made you decide to focus on this particular area? Can you share a story about that?

After my injury, I gained a ton of weight and it completely destroyed my self-image and confidence. I went from chasing bad guys and jumping over fences, to struggling to bend over and tie my own shoe laces. I had hit the lowest point of my life.

I began getting into the gym again and even then, I was super limited in the type of workouts and movements I could perform. I couldn’t bench press because it hurt my lower back so I had to do modified pushups. I had a hard time doing lower body movements so I had to get creative in order to fire up certain muscles. I think you get where I’m going with this right?

Long story short, I began to lose some weight and I started “looking better” again physically. I started gaining muscle and changing my external physique, but inside I was still sad and depressed. Thinking about it, I was confused why I was still so down even though I started to look like what I used to again. I may not have had the same functionalities, but at that point at least I saw some type of progress.

It was at that exact moment when I realized that the whole saying of, “If you look good, then you’ll feel good,” was complete crap! I started looking good, but I for sure wasn’t feeling good either.

That’s when it hit me, our external world may change but as long as our internal thoughts remained the same then our lives will continue to be the same too.

So to make it simple, it’s not “Look good THEN feel good,” rather it’s more “FEEL good, then look good.”

What’s the difference? Mindset.

I knew that with a broken mindset, I’ll never live the life I was meant to live. That’s why we put such a high focus on mindset here at Mod3rn Fitness. We want to help people change their inner world so that it can better reflect their external situations.

Change may not be easy, but if you really want to live at a higher level of life, then you’d better embrace and become familiar with change.

Our minds are such a powerful tool, we’re barely scratching the surface of our full potential! We need to be more aware of the thoughts, the people, the ideas, and the languages we allow to speak into our lives. All of these factors play into how our mindset is shaped.

And at the core of it all, our mindset is what shapes our reality and in turn, it’s what shapes our world.

Sometimes we just need to stop living in the past and thinking about ‘what was’, and believing and experiencing the future of what ‘could be’.

Are there three things the community/society/politicians can do help you address the root of the problem you are trying to solve?

Influencers play such an important role in society regardless if they’re a politician, community leader, or social media influencer. Leaders are in their position for a reason. You don’t just wake up one day and say, “I think I’m going to be a leader.”

I think that’s a title others can give you, and not one you just simply start calling yourself.

So what exactly does that mean?

It means that for whatever reason, someone believes in you and is following in your footsteps. It means that you have a place in their hearts and minds in a way that influences their decisions.

Leading by example and showing the rest of the world our imperfections would be a great way to help others see that we’re not so different from one another.

It would help people stop comparing their lives to the highlight reels they see on social media.

Because we’ve all been blessed in one way or another, it’s our responsibility to use our platforms to be a blessing to others as well.

What specific strategies have you been using to promote and advance this cause? Can you recommend any good tips for people who want to follow your lead and use their social platform for a social good?

Don’t be afraid of showing your ups and downs. Not in order to gain sympathy, but in order to speak your truth.

With all the stats that’s track on social media, the most important one isn’t even tracked. And that’s the amount of lives you’re changing simply by being yourself and telling your story.

It’s actually pretty simple, yet people still have a hard time comprehending what I mean by telling your story and being real.

Showing pictures of your life is great, don’t get me wrong. If you worked hard and earned what you have then by all means share it with the world. However, I encourage you to go a little deeper and share some of the stories that got you to where you are. The good, the bad, the great, and the ugly. Share it all!

Because chances are, there’s someone out there trying to do the same thing and they may be on the verge of giving up. Your story, may be exactly what they needed to see or hear at that specific moment in time.

Maybe because you had enough courage to step out of your comfort zone, someone else found a glimmer of hope and inspiration?

You don’t know who’s watching.

You don’t know who’s life you’re changing.

Be you, be real, and tell your story.

What are your “5 things I wish someone told me when I first started” and why? Please share a story or example for each.

1) Don’t be too serious. Life has a funny way of working itself out for the best. At this point in my life I know everything really does happen for a reason. Not just the grand and extravagant moments, but most importantly the small details we experience in life. You may be going through a tough time in life right now, but trust me that as you get through this you’ll see the lesson in the bigger picture. Just know that you’re exactly where you need to be. There’s a reason for it all and it may not make sense now, but in time I know it will.

2) Time is the greatest resource, not money. The more I made money my priority in business, the less I felt connected with the brand. When I made the shift and started focusing on IMPACT over income, everything changed for the best. Business just miraculously grew, we felt so much more peace and fulfillment, and I knew that this was exactly where we needed to be. Focus on helping others and not just trying make a quick buck.

3) Social media is about documentation, stop trying to make the ‘perfect post’. I use to spend hours trying to capture the perfect angle, apply the best filter, and type up the most impactful post for my Instagram. Basically, I was trying to be like what I thought everyone was wanted. And just like that, I started being like everyone else. When I began focusing on just documenting my journey and process not just in business, but in life as well, my following and my engagement grew! I was getting DM’s from people who I didn’t know, but got value from the content I offered. Document and share your process. Don’t worry about making everything look perfect.

4) It’s not about perfection, it’s all about progression. Business, social media, and life in general is about progress. It’s about leveling up and growing into the version of yourself you were meant to become. Sometimes we’re too caught up in making everything perfect, that we fail to see that perfection isn’t about the end goal rather it’s about the process of getting there. Though perfection isn’t achievable, the beauty is in the pursuit.

5) People will love you and people will hate you, so just be you. Stop trying to be a people pleaser. No matter what you do, there’s always going to be people that disagree. The goal is to find those who like you and continue being yourself. You’re going to have people that say unnecessary things that may hurt or offend you, it’s just part of the process. One of my mentors told me this amazing quote, “Don’t take offense, if offense wasn’t intended.” Regardless of someone’s intentions, we still control how we react. Don’t let someone else steal your joy or peace.

You are a person of enormous influence. If you could inspire a movement that would bring the most amount of good to the most amount of people, what would that be? You never know what your idea can trigger. 🙂

Mod3rn Fitness is the business, but #TEAMFFIT is the brand, the culture, and the movement. It’s about helping people achieve peak performance through their fitness, nutrition, and mindset. This movement was created to help people, help other people. It’s a simple and effective plan. Because we help grow and achieve high levels of greatness, in turn they’re out doing the same for someone else because there’s a sense of abundance in their lives.

The more we have, the more we can give.

The more we can give, the more we can help change lives.

Can you please give us your favorite “Life Lesson Quote”? Can you share how that was relevant to you in your life?

“Don’t be afraid to be the youngest, dumbest, most inexperienced person in the room.” I heard this from one of my good friends and mentors when he was teaching me how to level up in life. For the longest time, I was too concerned about being ‘the best’. But what happens when you become the best is that you stop growing. And at any point, you’re either bringing people or they’re weighing you down. If you’re the ‘top dog’ in a room then you need to find another room. It means you’ve reached the full potential and you need to start associating with people who know more and have done more, so you can BE MORE. Start humbling yourself and don’t let your pride or ego get the best of you and hinder your growth.

It’s one of the most profound things I’ve learned and its been one of the reason why I’m growing so quickly not just in business, but in my personal life and relationships as well.

Is there a person in the world, or in the US whom you would love to have a private breakfast or lunch with, and why? He or she might just see this, especially if we tag them. 🙂

I would love to have a private breakfast with Andy Frisella. His podcast, The MFCEO Project was a game changer for me and my business. During my recover and physical therapy, I listened to his podcast and it just resonated with so many different aspects in my life. It was part of the reason why I started putting myself back together again. He has played a crucial role in my life and why I’m able to do the things I’m doing today. That would be such a great opportunity to chat with him and just be around a genuine and all-around good soul.

How can our readers follow you on social media?

I primarily use instagram, @angeloliloc & @mod3rn_fitness . I also have a podcast called, “The JUST FFIT Podcast” where you can find on Apple Itunes, Spotify, Google Podcasts, Breaker, and Anchor. Last but not least, I have a private Facebook group called #TEAMFFIT, that I encourage each and every one of you to join, especially if you’re looking to surround yourself with genuinely good people who want to level up in life together! Check us out at www.facebook.com/groups/mod3rnfitness .

Last but not least you can visit us on the web via our website www.mod3rnfitness.com

I’d love to connect with you and help out in any way I can, thank you guys again for this opportunity!

This was very meaningful, thank you so much!


The Social Impact Heroes of Social Media:”It’s not about perfection, it’s all about progression”… was originally published in Authority Magazine on Medium, where people are continuing the conversation by highlighting and responding to this story.

The Social Impact Heroes of Social Media: “Empathy should come first” with Olumide Gbenro and Candi

The Social Impact Heroes of Social Media: “Empathy should come first” with Olumide Gbenro and Candice Georgiadis

Empathy should come first: think about how your decisions affect others before making a move. Share from your heart and be genuine and you should have a better time.

As a part of my series about social media stars who are using their platform to make a significant social impact, I had the pleasure of interviewing Olumide Gbenro. Olumide is a business influencer, entrepreneur, polyglot, creative artist, and experiential film producer. He is a Nomadic Entrepreneur who although based in Bali, travels frequently and has consulted with multimillion dollar companies across genres like Blockchain, Music, & Artificial Intelligence. He founded The Digital Nomad Summit, the largest community of digital nomads in the world.

Thank you so much for doing this with us! Can you tell us a story about what brought you to this specific career path?

My first step into social media was Youtube. I literally made 1,000+ dance videos on my old youtube every day in my small college dorm. I would post a new one on my Facebook every single day. I used to get thousands of views on the silliest videos that were not focused on any particular topic but from then I knew the power of social media and how many it could reach.

Can you share the most interesting story that happened to you since you began this career?

For me it was being recognized by people on the street despite being a “micro influencer.” People in San Diego and Bali would stop me and say “you are that guy that’s always dancing” or “you are that Globopreneur guy on instagram”

Can you share a story about the funniest mistake you made when you were first starting? Can you tell us what lesson you learned from that?

For me it was definitely focusing on only growing a following and trying to become instafamous. It just didn’t work because sometimes I would not be fully authentic. I was trying to predict what would get views instead of what I enjoyed doing and sharing with the world. I learned to be myself and impact from growing a real and authentic relationship with my audience.

Ok super. Let’s now jump to the core focus of our interview. Can you describe to our readers how you are using your platform to make a significant social impact?

For me it’s simple, I make content that will help shine a spotlight on the causes of people who are making a difference in the lives of others. It’s no longer about me. I now use my platforms such as my instagram to document entrepreneurs, influencers and business owners around the world who are creating products, solutions, and charities that benefit the global population. I use my podcast to share knowledge from people who have become authorities in their space.

Wow! Can you tell us a story about a particular individual who was impacted by this cause?

Yes! My most recent interview Chris Sperduto a man known only as “Helmet Man.” A New York born expat living in Indonesia who has distributed over 12,5000 helmets (as of June 27th, 2019) to Indonesian school children to reduce fatalities from lack of helmet use while they are on motorbikes (a very common form of transportation in Indonesia).

Was there a tipping point that made you decide to focus on this particular area? Can you share a story about that?

For me since I now live in Bali, Indonesia, it was important to give back and shed a light on positive causes and philanthropy that my global audience can contribute to. Not just post exciting beach photos or the beautiful nature that is typical for Instagram influencers living in Bali.

Are there three things the community/society/politicians can do help you address the root of the problem you are trying to solve?

Yes! We have created a fundraising page we share on both the youtube documentary and also my social media pages @Globopreneur. Secondly we are looking for volunteers who are interested in working to educate school children in Indonesia through the non profit Chris has started named Project Protect Helmet Man. We need social media managers, graphic designers, and people with fundraising experience so we can raise more money and make more impact.

What specific strategies have you been using to promote and advance this cause? Can you recommend any good tips for people who want to follow your lead and use their social platform for a social good?

I’ve been documenting the filming of the official documentary on my social media accounts every interaction and chance I get. One of the main tips I would share is that impact extends past social media. In this particular case we are pushing the documentary within our support network, attending various networking events, supporting and cross promoting similar projects so we can reach an even larger and targeted audience who truly care about what we are doing.

What are your “5 things I wish someone told me when I first started” and why? Please share a story or example for each.

  1. Be patient: Becoming an influencer and making real impact takes time, focus on why you are doing it and the rest will come.
  2. Find people like you: So many of us are afraid to collaborate because we feel it will take away from attention on us. What we don’t realize is that we can leverage from other audiences and create great collaborations as well.
  3. Focus on your strengths: I tried doing things I was not the best at and failed many times, it’s best to focus on strengths and grow from that instead.
  4. Empathy should come first: think about how your decisions affect others before making a move. Share from your heart and be genuine and you should have a better time.
  5. Love it and work hard: They don’t tell you it’s like a job unless you really love it. I can’t tell you how many nights I’ve stayed up working on a new project or concept that matters. When I started The Digital Nomad Summit, I would stay up all night just writing out my vision and what I wanted to see in our community 5 years, 10 years down the line. It’s all part of the process.

You are a person of enormous influence. If you could inspire a movement that would bring the most amount of good for the most amount of people, what would that be? You never know what your idea can trigger. 🙂

I want everyone to realize that using their platform to support a cause is so important. I would want to inspire a movement where each social media “influencer” partners with a reputable cause or charity and cobrands to help them grow and make real influence. Just looking cool on social media is not enough anymore. We need to use our powers for good.

Can you please give us your favorite “Life Lesson Quote”? Can you share how that was relevant to you in your life?

Gary Vaynerchuk is someone I follow closely and he once said “99% of things don’t matter” and for me I interpret that as focusing on the things that bring results and impact. If it does not do either of those things I don’t let it bother me in life.

Is there a person in the world, or in the US whom you would love to have a private breakfast or lunch with, and why? He or she might just see this, especially if we tag them. 🙂

I would love to meet Sir Richard Branson to pick his brain on how he’s impacted so many areas and companies based on one brand. Finally it’s always been a dream to meet President Barack Obama due to the influence and love he has from people around the world and understand the psyche he has now he has cemented himself in history books.

How can our readers follow you on social media?

All of my social media accounts @Globopreneur and also through searching my name “Olumide Gbenro” or my nickname “@Globopreneur” on Youtube.

This was very meaningful, thank you so much!

Thank you so much, I am grateful for the opportunity!


The Social Impact Heroes of Social Media: “Empathy should come first” with Olumide Gbenro and Candi was originally published in Authority Magazine on Medium, where people are continuing the conversation by highlighting and responding to this story.

“Always be yourself and surround yourself with people who support that” with Stephen Sharer and…

“Always be yourself and surround yourself with people who support that” with Stephen Sharer and Candice Georgiadis

Always be yourself and surround yourself with people who support that. Being in a big world every single day, it’s easy to feel pressure to be someone you’re not, and it’s easy to follow the wrong crowd. If you can focus on yourself, accept yourself for who you are, be your biggest supporter, you can accomplish so much.

I had the pleasure of interviewing Stephen Sharer. Stephen is one of the fastest growing social media personalities with a loyal fan base of over 6.5 million YouTube subscribers. A leader in providing family friendly content with a positive message of “Staying Awesome” and “Sharing the Love,” Stephen and his family have engaged over 2 billion viewers to over 400 viral videos of positive family fun. Stephen has always been socially conscious, in high school serving as a coach for Special Olympics and a mentor for Best Buddies and now committing his time to paying it forward by granting Make-A-Wish dreams and private meet and greets with critically ill fans.

Thank you so much for doing this with us! Can you tell us a story about what brought you to this specific career path?

I’ve been creating videos and performing since I was young, so I was naturally drawn to that aspect of making YouTube content — my favorite after school activity as a kid was actually filming videos and creating content with my friends. Once I got a bit older, my funny videos gained traction and won a few awards, which led to a turning point where I had record labels reach out to me asking to create music videos for their artists like Blink 182, who actually licensed my footage. This is when I learned the influential power behind social content, and I knew then I wanted to be able to continue making it as a career.

Can you share the most interesting story that happened to you since you began this career?

The response from fans has been the most interesting thing since starting my career as a YouTuber. The positive response and messages I receive every day from my fan base of Sharers has been incredible. Whether it’s a drawing sent to me by a fan, or a tender-hearted message about how I positively impact their family every single day. I never could have predicted this response when I first began this journey. I have now participated in 3 Make-A-Wish requests and it has been amazing to have that opportunity to create short videos for children and families going through a hard time.

Can you share a story about the funniest mistake you made when you were first starting?

When I first started, I often was forgetting to hit record or not turning on the microphone. The things that come so naturally to me now were so foreign to me at first — imagine filming a whole vlog without any sound, or performing an entire epic scene or stunt without having ever started the recording.

Can you tell us what lesson you learned from that?

Always double check the steps in your process, no matter how simple they might be.

Let’s now jump to the core focus of our interview. Can you describe to our readers how you are using your platform to make a significant social impact?

With so much content out there, it’s important to me as a creator to use my platform to make a positive difference in the world. Share the Love is my brand, my motto behind every video I create. I want my channel to be a place for families and people of all ages to be able to enjoy G-rated content, feel inspired to create, get out and explore and feel motivated after watching me. My videos are fun and upbeat, and they all include family-friendly, positive messaging. My motto is “Share the Love” and I encourage my fans to do this every day.

Can you tell us a story about a particular individual who was impacted by this cause?

Make-A-Wish, a nonprofit that grants the wishes of children with critical illnesses, is a cause close to my heart because it truly embodies the “Share the Love” message. I have been lucky enough to meet several children through Make-A-Wish to help turn their wishes into reality. Most recently, I spent the day with James, a young boy living with Muscular Dystrophy who happens to be a huge fan. We had an epic day spent at the Sharer Family house where we explored in the woods, played with Nerf blaster, went to an arcade and even got to make a vlog together. The ability to put the “Share the Love” message into action and have a positive impact on kids and families like James’ makes the hard work that goes on behind the scenes of being a YouTube creator worthwhile.

Was there a tipping point that made you decide to focus on this particular area? Can you share a story about that?

When I was making videos in high school, I made a Blink 182 cover video with my swim team just for fun and it ended up getting about 20,000 views. A few months later, AT&T, who was sponsoring Blink 182’s tour at the time, reached out and asked if they could include my video in the band’s music video. This really opened my eyes to the power of video. While it wasn’t for a few years that I decided to take on YouTube full time, this was definitely a pivotal experience for me and made me realize that regardless of the number of views a video gets, if you reach the right set of eyes it can have a tremendous impact.

Are there 3 things the community/society/politicians can do help you address the root of the problem you are trying to solve?

In today’s world, it is so easy to get caught up in the negativity around us. As a society, we often forget that there is so much to be grateful for and so many reasons to Share the Love. I am so passionate about the Share the Love message because it is a reminder to do three things: have fun, give back and spread positivity. I use it to try to encourage others to do these things in their own communities. With the pressures of life, it can be easy to get in the trap of taking life too seriously, and if we committed to having more fun as a society, we’d be taking steps in the direction toward a happier way of life. Then of course, it is obviously important to focus on is paying it forward and giving back to the community. In addition to that, spreading positivity is something that sounds so easy, but many of us forget to do. I’ve chosen to use my content to spread positivity, but anyone can take small actions like complimenting somebody, standing up to a bully, or even remembering to smile more, saying “Please” and “Thank you,” and appreciating people for what they DO versus focusing on the things they don’t…these things go a long way! They may seem like small steps individually, but put together we can create a tidal wave effect of sharing the love.

What specific strategies have you been using to promote and advance this cause? Can you recommend any good tips for people who want to follow your lead and use their social platform for a social good?

I end every single video encouraging my fans to “Stay Awesome and Share The Love.” This phrase has become a catchphrase for me and is often quoted by my fans and their families too! They make me realize that the message of “Share the Love” is bigger than just a YouTube channel — it’s a social movement. If you want to use your platform for social good, you have to seek out ways to move beyond the platform. One of the ways I have done this is through my official merchandise line available at StephenSharer.com, where we sell apparel and accessories with our brand message on it. When you wear something with a positive phrase like Share the Love, you are making a statement about what you stand for. Everyone has something special to offer and representing yourself with a strong and positive message like this helps bring out the encouragement in all as well as inspire others to Share the Love too.

What are your “5 things I wish someone told me when I first started” and why? Please share a story or example for each.

1. Always be yourself and surround yourself with people who support that.

Being in a big world every single day, it’s easy to feel pressure to be someone you’re not, and it’s easy to follow the wrong crowd. If you can focus on yourself, accept yourself for who you are, be your biggest supporter, you can accomplish so much.

2. “Enjoy the little things in life.”

My YouTube career took off extremely fast (I was one of the top 100 YouTube channels in the US). A lot of major milestones were accomplished that were beyond anything I could imagine. It’s important take a step back and to make sure to reflect on every accomplishment, no matter how big or small they seem at the time.

You are a person of enormous influence. If you could inspire a movement that would bring the most amount of good to the most amount of people, what would that be? You never know what your idea can trigger. 🙂

I’d love to continue to expand the reach of the Share the Love message and keep encouraging more positivity in the world. If we all were able to accept people for who they are, compliment them on the things they accomplish, and contribute a little more positivity every day, you could make a person’s day a little brighter and create a ripple effect and encourage those around us to keep spreading happiness and sharing the love.

Can you please give us your favorite “Life Lesson Quote”? Can you share how that was relevant to you in your life?

“Don’t mention a person’s past mistakes when they are trying to change. That’s like throwing rocks at them while they are struggling to climb a mountain.” This quote is important to me because it reminds me that everyone is going to something whether you can physically see it or not. And it reminds me to treat everyone with respect and appreciate them for the things they do, no matter the size.

Is there a person in the world, or in the US whom you would love to have a private breakfast or lunch with, and why? He or she might just see this, especially if we tag them. 🙂

Taylor Swift is one of the most influential people for me. It is amazing how she transitioned genres while not just maintaining, but growing a multi-generational audience. On top of that, she is a marketing genius, an incredible businesswoman and, most importantly, she always gives back. She is a strong believer in herself, connects with her fans often and is very involved with her family.

How can our readers follow you on social media?

You can find me on YouTube and Social Media here:

YouTube: https://youtube.com/stephensharer

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/StephenSharerOfficial

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/stephensharer/

Twitter: https://twitter.com/stephensharer

This was very meaningful, thank you so much!


“Always be yourself and surround yourself with people who support that” with Stephen Sharer and… was originally published in Authority Magazine on Medium, where people are continuing the conversation by highlighting and responding to this story.

“A true leader doesn’t ever judge”, with Marianne Fonseca and Candice Georgiadis

Leadership in my opinion, is an attitude of being 100% selfless. Leaders help care for people’s needs and put the wellbeing of others before their own.
Also, a true leader doesn’t ever judge. They understand everyone’s unique journeys in order to help guide them.

I had the pleasure of interviewing Marianne Fonseca.

Thank you so much for doing this with us! Can you tell us a story about what brought you to this specific career path?

For as long as I can remember, I have always wanted to help people in need through missionary work. My mom raised me to be very generous. When I was a kid, she used to volunteer at an organization that provides support for people with AIDS. She then became the director of a local orphanage in our city, so she had taught me the importance of helping others from a young age. In general, I have always admired people like Angelina Jolie, who would choose to help the world without any obligations.

Can you share the most interesting story that happened to you since you began leading your company or organization?

I don’t lead the organization I work with, but I really value being a part of it. The church is called Churchome and it was founded by the lead pastor Judah Smith`s parents in Seattle. The church offers many programs, one of which is the mission trips lead by pastor Joanne Ramos. Since I started doing mission trips, the most interesting thing I’ve experienced is how people can work together to do beautiful things without having known each other prior (we mostly get to meet the other volunteers only a couple months before the trips). I am also amazed at how easy it is to adapt to circumstances, like housing and roommates, lack of sleep, not eating what you are normally used to etc; you just come together as a group for a bigger cause and forget all the little things that normally annoy you back at home. It’s a supernatural thing and something I have experienced each trip I have participated in. It’s real proof that we can be so civil and loving when we come together for something greater than ourselves.

Can you share a story about the funniest mistake you made when you were first starting? Can you tell us what lesson you learned from that?

I am new to mission trips; this is only my 4th time going on one. I think the biggest mistakes I have made so far had to do with language barriers. Since English is not my mother tongue, I have made some funny mistakes when talking in public or even praying for others and not seeming to find the right words. Most of the times its funny and I learn for the future, but most importantly I have learned to not fear speaking in public and to not be ashamed of my accent.

Can you describe how you or your organization is making a significant social impact?

Our church gets involved in a many different areas in numerous countries. From what I have experienced and seen, I know that they are making a big difference by providing the inhabitants of Kampala, Uganda with a better quality of life.

In Sri Lanka, where I have volunteered twice, we worked to provide protection to single mothers and their children, since domestic violence is very common and it happens to almost every Srilankan woman. Some of them have nowhere to go and by running away from their husbands, they are no longer accepted at home by their own families. We help by providing them with temporary housing and food We also work on their reintegration in society, we have classes to teach them basic jobs like baking, sewing etc.

Our church is also very close to the organization A21 against human trafficking and slavery, which has done a lot of work in helping to recover victims and arrest criminals convicted for human trafficking.

Can you tell me a story about a particular individual who was impacted by your cause?

My pastor, Joanne Ramos, has always been an inspiration to me. As a young adult, she was lost and involved with drugs etc, but she turned her life around and became a believer of Jesus through a very beautiful story. For 20 years now she has led one trip per month in 12 different countries, doing a beautiful job in helping humanity. It impacts me to think that someone who is broken can be “born again“ and then do so much good in the world. It made me realize that no matter how broken we are inside, it is still possible to get out of that situation and change ourselves and even change the world around us. It gives me a lot of hope.

Are there three things the community/society/politicians can do help you address the root of the problem you are trying to solve?

As a church community, we are trying to bring the Jesus’s message across the world and help in any way we can. Every country has their own different needs. Often times, the root of the problems we are trying to solve (such as human trafficking, basic sanitation, right to education etc.) are linked to a deep political situation, a lack of financial resources, or corruption, bribes and criminals. Which makes it almost impossible to fight against a whole system. As I’m writing this, I get really concerned as to where our world is going and how we need to rethink about our real priorities. Why do we tend to be so selfish and not care to look at our neighbors? Shouldn’t they also be given the chance to live happily in this world? I say we can all do better. We can all push ourselves and go out of our comfort zones for others like we would want done for ourselves. You don’t need to look far to find someone in need, there’s always a chance someone in your community is in a worse position than you.

How do you define “Leadership”? Can you explain what you mean or give an example?

Leadership in my opinion, is an attitude of being 100% selfless. Leaders help care for people’s needs and put the wellbeing of others before their own.
Also, a true leader doesn’t ever judge. They understand everyone’s unique journeys in order to help guide them.

What are your “5 things I wish someone told me when I first started” and why. Please share a story or example for each.

There isn’t really anything I wish I knew before, as these trips are so special and beautiful and have taught me so much. You end up getting so much more out of helping others than the people you are actually helping sometimes. It surprises me how close you get to everyone involved and I really wish I started doing these trips earlier, that’s the only thing I wish someone told me.

You are a person of enormous influence. If you could inspire a movement that would bring the most amount of good to the most amount of people, what would that be? You never know what your idea can trigger. 🙂

I think we already have an answer to that — love others and treat others like you would like to be treated. I know this is very cliché, but it is the underlying truth to bringing change to the world. As humans, we tend to have a selfish nature, but I believe that if we truly invested time in loving others like we love ourselves, the world would become a much more perfect place.

Can you please give us your favorite “Life Lesson Quote”? Can you share how that was relevant to you in your life?

Live in the moment. I often spend so much time worrying about the future and used to have anxiety about things that haven’t even happened yet. I have learned to control myself and to focus on the `now` and just take it one day at a time. It’s surprising how much happier you can be when you live each day to the fullest.

Is there a person in the world, or in the US whom you would love to have a private breakfast or lunch with, and why? He or she might just see this, especially if we tag them. 🙂

yes, Melinda Gates

How can our readers follow you on social media?

instagram @marianne_fonseca

facebook mariane fonseca prado

This was very meaningful, thank you so much!


“A true leader doesn’t ever judge”, with Marianne Fonseca and Candice Georgiadis was originally published in Authority Magazine on Medium, where people are continuing the conversation by highlighting and responding to this story.

“5 Things We Need To Do To Close The Gender Wage Gap” With Jasmine Gercke PhD

One solution that has been implemented is maternity leave for both genders. Whilst this allows for women to be more present in their careers, as they take a shorter leave, it also offers the opportunity for men to spend time with their newborn. This is seen as a solution to our gender pay gap, but it also raises the question of gender equality. It is scientifically proven that women need to spend more time to connect to their newborn, breastfeeding and allowing for the child to bond right after childbirth, whilst men tend to connect more after the child’s first birthday. Whilst this solution appears to be politically correct, is this not more advantageous for the man yet again?

As part of my series about “the five things we need to do to close the gender wage gap” I had the pleasure of interviewing Jasmine Gercke PhD. Canadian Jasmine Gercke, aka Dr. Jazz, is a serial entrepreneur, author and yogi, and the creator of Jazz Yoga and a passionate advocate of healthy body and mindfulness practices. This spiritual advisor represents the world with her diverse reach from classrooms to boardrooms, with a skill set that ranges from social entrepreneurship, to alternative medicine and technology. She stands for humanity’s transformation, from stressful surviving into mindful thriving, by merging Western knowledge of medicine with Eastern wisdom through her work. Born in Wimbledon, UK, educated in Wiesbaden, Germany, and currently based in Canada, she completed her postgraduate studies in International Business at the Manchester Business School and now represents the world through Thought Leadership. Her Jazz Yoga Therapy Method is based in neuroscience, positive psychology, and mindfulness combined with sound healing music at 432hertz and is the first-ever method to combine yoga with music in this cellular healing revolution. Dr. Jazz shares her story and wisdom through her speaking events “ Your Breath is your Lifeline”, “Bounce Back”, “How to be a human in the bionic world of Artificial Intelligence”, and is currently promoting her upcoming book Billionaire Yogi — Health I$ Wealth in an effort to bring Peace and Joy to the world.

Thank you so much for joining us! Can you tell us the “backstory” that brought you to this career path?

Absolutely. Do you ever remember having that ‘aha’ moment, where you question your entire life choices you took to this present moment and you ask yourself: “What now?” Well, I had that moment in 2007. I was supposed to be happily married, with a beautiful young child, and a promising career at Ernst & Young. I was the owner of a home, a car, I had disposable income and yet my perfect life was shattered into pieces in a glimpse of an eye. When that dreamstate fell apart, I awakened and realised I was not contributing enough to society. Unfulfilled with the choices I had made thus far, I decided to make a drastic change. Transformation is a journey within.

What enables me to find strength in moments of hardship is the light at the end of the tunnel. The shift was triggered by a diagnosis of major depression, which was primarily caused by my environment at the time. This was my permission to look inwards for answers and led me on a journey of trusting myself more. The first step of taking my power back was following my dream. I became a certified Yoga Teacher, which empowered me to resign from my job as a Resource Manager for Eastern Canada and this process inevitably led me to build a yoga school to serve my community. Change is brought about by this inner transformation. I was fighting for government aid to feed my young son during the legal process of my divorce. I felt the financial pressure and I was backed into a corner. I was a victim of societal boundaries, stuck in a grey zone. This is the paradox of being educated in a world where the system fails. However, giving up was never an option. After several months of struggling, I applied for a grant for young entrepreneurs which helped me birth my first Jazz Yoga School and fulfilled my dream to serve our community. In order to make a change in your wellbeing you must become your own hero, and this was my first attempt at it.

Accountability is key in business and in your personal growth. It is important for me to share that this was only a stepping stone to my true calling as a Keynote Speaker and Thought Leader. Through my speaking, I am able to tackle topics such as Artificial Intelligence and its power to support the advancement of healthcare in third world countries, which allows me to stay connected with the revolutionary innovation that we are witnessing. This transition did not happen overnight. It was a 10-year process combined with the constant awareness of changing my story. I now live to empower women and youth and shed light on the struggles we live on a daily basis in oirder to drive change through the power of education.

The beauty about my backstory is, that its darkness has led me directly to the light and to the path of Sustainable Development Goals initiatives by the United Nations. This initiative will continue to guide my future, as I serve humanity; and this time with my head on my shoulders and definitely in the front line. My story is a constant reminder that we must surrender to the power of love. Your life can change in an instant. Never forget the power of your dreams. Whilst the shift was triggered by loss, it also activated a deep trust in my Self, which continues to drive me to always offer my best, to inspire and educate and spare the suffering of our fellow brothers and sisters.

Can you share the most interesting story that happened to you since you began this career?

This is a good question. There are so many stories and each one has impacted my life. I must say that every day and every human interaction brings about fascinating learning experiences in this career path. The reason I chose to be a voice for Women in Business, is that I am a woman of mixed race, who has experienced life as a single mother, working in the corporate environment in a mostly male dominated world having to fight for recognition. I know what it feels like to be paid less than a man working in the same role and to be rejected from boardroom meetings because of my sex. I have been mentally abused in my personal life and I have found my own power through positive psychology. Whilst it taught me resilience, it also motivates me to be a change agent.

Through entrepreneurship, I have been able to learn how to thrive as a team and use each others’ strengths to succeed. As a humanitarian, I proudly stand by the choice of love and compassion over money and power. This means using my skill set and faith to shine in a world that has lost its way and prefers to discriminate rather than appreciate.

I ask you to go deeper and find peace and joy in your journey by celebrating humans and their impeccable flaws, as this is what makes us all unique and irreplaceable in business and on this planet. The most beautiful part is the encountering of amazing humans on a daily basis. My journey as a spiritual advisor has taught me so much about my Self, as we lift others and we find our own success. This is a time where we must stand strong together and rise. It is time.

Recently, I was part of an amazing initiative to support non-profit organisations in South Africa to honor the incredible humans making a difference in this world on a daily basis. One person can truly change the world through the power of love. One local farmer has been working without running water on site for nearly 30 years. On the flipside we have used so much water that we are threatened to run out of it in this very lifetime. These stories have changed my perspective and we must continue to work towards the #ActNow initiative by the United Nations to bring awareness to the current issues we are facing as humanity.

Can you share a story about the funniest or most interesting mistake you made when you were first starting?

I would not characterize any of my mistakes as funny, however the word interesting does capture the experience of it all. Growth can manifest itself in many categories and in my case, the sacrifice symbolised with the time I fell on my head. Overworked and underpaid, I had lost my way as an entrepreneur and I did not see the fall coming. The key to a successful entrepreneur is self-care and whilst I was working in the Wellness industry, I was taking on way too much for one person and I had a huge lesson to learn in delegating work, or the lack of my skill at the time.

One night after working late, I lost consciousness and must have fallen head first onto the wooden floors of my apartment, as I found myself flat on the floor when I awoke. The egg size bump on my forehead was a clear indicator that I was hurt and with no memory of what had happened, I somehow managed to get to the Emergency. This fall was a wake up call. The long recovery back to mySelf affected my business and my personal life and I suffered tremendously.

Whilst this was a hard lesson to learn, it was also the opening door to my transformation. It allowed me to go deeper into my own value system and reinvent myself. My own growth into the digital world of Artificial Intelligence in the Healthcare sector flourished from this freak accident. A friend of mine captured it beautifully when he told me: “Falling on your head might have been the best thing that ever happened in your life.”

I was running a successful Yoga business into my fourth year of survival, which is seen as having made it if we look at it from a statistical point of view in the start-up world, but the truth is, that the market was changing and the digital world was emerging faster than imaginable. I felt the need to reach more people without continuously burning out in this fast paced and competitive society. The lesson was clear to me in the process of recovery: work smarter, not harder.

In business we can underestimate the projections and timeline of a project, which can be detrimental. In my case, I expected to be running the same yoga school for at least 15 years when I signed my original lease. At the time, I was not aware of my journey to come: a series of failures and accidents to experience. My frontal lobe concussion was followed by a minor car accident in the same year damaging my thoracic spine, which led to another physical transformation and refinement of my yogic path. The recovery of both the concussion and spine injury aligned with my decision to implement an exit strategy for my business at the time and bring the Jazz Yoga brand global by training digitally and travelling the world as a Speaker. This has directly led me to my current adventurous life as a Bourgois Gipsy, a life filled with humanitarian work and entrepreneurship. This blessing to coach in both a business environment and online is allowing flexibility in my life in a world filled with boundaries.

The fact of the matter is that I will likely be educated in the field of Healthcare all my life and that innovation is key in the path of success and change is inevitable. That I guess, must be the humour in it and the “funny part” you are referring to, as I can now laugh at the falls and obstacles when I share my story on stage.

Can you tell us what lesson you learned from that?

The most important takeaway from this experience was learning how to prepare my business exit strategy and in my life as an entrepreneur it allowed me to reinvent myself as a Thought Leader and Global Speaker by implementing a strategic plan. Over the period of one year I rebranded which has offered me an opportunity to sell the ownership of my business to another company or investor in the future. The exit strategy for Jazz Yoga School allowed me to liquidate my stake in the business and relaunch Jazz Yoga Ayurveda as a global brand. With the help of the national community TV project, aired in Canada and with the assistance of global ambassadors we have successfully relaunched. I have learned that it is never too late to claim back your brand and stand apart from the competition.

The learning process is ongoing, but the understanding that we cannot do it alone has become a key in the succession of achieving milestones in the bigger vision of my dream. The transition was a process of transformation that can be summarised in several layers of understanding life. The lesson of resilience in life has only confirmed my vision for this world and allowed me to self-express my authenticity and staying true to my calling, which is to serve this world and my family.

This expansiveness of my heart has taught me to live in the present moment and treasure every moment and as my son so bravely says to me: “Live your best life Mom”. This profound learning that we are all interconnected and have our own personal truth to live by, is manifested in joy and thriving in a world that is changing and filled with beautiful souls that understand the power of love. There is a lesson in every step of our path. This experience was a reminder that we can never fail, as life is designed as our teacher.

Ok let’s jump to the main focus of our interview. Even in 2019, women still earn about 80 cents for every dollar a man makes. Can you explain three of the main factors that are causing the wage gap?

The wage gap between genders refers to the difference in pay between male and female and whilst John F. Kennedy signed the Equal Pay Act in 1963 and made it illegal to pay men and women working in the same place different salaries for similar work, we are still recording statistics where women make $0.79 for each dollar compared to our male equivalent according to the Bureau of Labor Statistics (BLS). Whilst one can argue that our statistics are not completely accurate, we have identified three main factors that continue to cause this wage gap in our society: Legal, Collective and voluntary.

To clarify, these factors which include occupational segregation, bias against working mothers and direct remuneration discrimation, are causing a trivial divide when it comes to lack of fairness in pay. We must commit to dig a little deeper and understand how we can support the Sustainable Development Goals (SDG) which include Gender Equality as the fifth most prioritised amongst the 17 goals in the 2030 Sustainable Development Agenda. Our mission is, to achieve equal access for primary education amongst all children and to eliminate practices such as discrimination against race, sex, and gender.

Persistently, we acknowledge the gender pay gap in less developed countries, however there are still preserving Issues around the globe. Whilst we find comfort in the reports by the Centre for Global Development that states: “It often gets worse before it can get better”, there is no excuse for this old way of thinking, allowing inequality? We must achieve gender equality and empower women and girls to create a new world of inclusiveness and fairness.

Can you share with our readers what your work is doing to help close the gender wage gap?

As an Entrepreneur and CEO of our Canadian Consulting company, I am upscaling myself as a Woman in Business which will directly impact the gender pay gap. I continue to educate myself so I can inspire other women to become their own boss and leader. My reason for inspiring and building confidence in women is to encourage other women leaders to step up and to ensure our global economic growth and wellbeing.

One of the reasons we are still facing issues of gender inequality is, that we only have around 20% of women in political leadership roles and even less in technology related roles, which causes the economy to suffer as a whole. We need to focus on including more talented women in the AI, Politics and Leadership to accelerate the process of closing the gender pay gap.

Our consulting services to businesses include training and development in measuring the gender pay gap. We are aware, that calculating the statistics, is the first step towards closing the gender parity. We are continuously learning new methodologies of business to allow for improvement in reducing the time it will take to close the gap. Through our non-profit organisation (www.risenheaven.org), we aim to offer sponsorship to talented children, young adults and women, specifically to the less privileged allowing them to access financial support and creating opportunities for more women leaders across all verticals of business to succeed. This initiative is in alignment with the UN SDGs 2030 goals to close the gender pay gap.

Can you recommend 5 things that need to be done on a broader societal level to close the gender wage gap. Please share a story or an example for each.

According to the Centre for Global Development women are more educated today than in any point of history. I think there are five reasons that stand out when we evaluate the core issues of the gender pay gap and allow ourselves to seek deeper knowledge inside to resolve these discrepancies in our society.

Taken from the initiatives of the United Nations’ 17 SDG Goals, I believe that, if we as a nation, focus on no poverty, zero hunger, good health and wellbeing, quality education, gender equality and last, but carrying the whole, partnerships for these goals, we have an opportunity to drive change on the societal level.

I am implicated in many charitable organisations with regards to education in the East and what appears to be one of the main drawbacks is that many women are not allowed to go to school at all, or have duties in the home which hinder the process of education further. The women that have the opportunity to pursue their studies end up marrying and still fall into the tradition of staying at home with the family. All these predetermined factors cause the occupational segregation and embody quality education and gender equality as mentioned in our solutions to drive change as a collective.

Whilst education increases women’s earnings, it has not had the effect we hoped for in terms of equal pay and justice. When I completed my postgraduate studies in 2001, I was hired in a low paid entry level position, which was on average $8000 less than my male peers. This trend continued even once I applied my acquired negotiation skills. I jumped ship to another corporate superpower and while my income increased I was never able to share the same playing field as my male colleagues in relation to our compensation. Over the course of a decade, this has affected my standard of living and that of my family.

This leads us to another reason for gender pay inequality — transparency of remuneration. If we as a collective teach women to respect themselves and empower them to ask for their value when taking on new opportunities, we will no doubt come one step closer to our dreams and find equality of human rights for all. This addresses Health and wellbeing at the same time, as it builds confidence and allows for financial stability to afford to take care of your health.

One solution that has been implemented is maternity leave for both genders. Whilst this allows for women to be more present in their careers, as they take a shorter leave, it also offers the opportunity for men to spend time with their newborn. This is seen as a solution to our gender pay gap, but it also raises the question of gender equality. It is scientifically proven that women need to spend more time to connect to their newborn, breastfeeding and allowing for the child to bond right after childbirth, whilst men tend to connect more after the child’s first birthday. Whilst this solution appears to be politically correct, is this not more advantageous for the man yet again?

Women need the time after childbirth to recover and the brain is often affected, due to postpartum and new responsibility and worry for the newborn. Separation anxiety can cause a lack of productivity and performance at work and the pressure can lead to “burnout”, which I experienced first hand. With the lack of support at home and the need to travel for my position, the walls closed in on me and I eventually had to take a partially-paid leave after the birth of my son. This strained me financially and slowed down my career path. All this was leading up to my divorce, and as a single mother, I was challenged further in becoming financially stable. Are we addressing the underlying issue of hunger and health and wellbeing, when we only partially pay for a leave of absence caused by mental health issues?

The Paycheck Fairness Act essentially works to close loopholes in the landmark Equal Pay Act of 1963 beforementioned in this interview, and it will lead us to move forward in our mission to be fair in all that is gender related discrimination. Transparency of pay also falls into this category and in my personal experience this is how I first found out I was being underpaid as a Woman in 2003 at my banking job. Comparing my income to my male peers, I learnt that I had the same experience, was delivering on my tasks and was remunerated less than my supposedly equal colleagues. I decided to educate myself on how to negotiate fair pay. I learnt to ask for a range of pay when applying for a new position.

The fact remains that women are less likely to ask for higher salaries due to underlying stigmas that they will produce less outcome due to family obligations. With my son in a daycare service, I continued to work overtime, as I felt the pressure to compete with my male colleagues and also had obligations to pay for the household needs.

I also compromised myself when it came to asking for raises and evaluating my performance and I self sabotaged, as I felt guilty for taking leave for family emergencies and obligations.

During my maternity leave, a colleague was hired to replace me, and he remained as a permanent position upon my return to work which basically made my position obsolete. This was the final straw for me. I decided to empower myself and take matters into my own hands. I embraced the entrepreneur in me. I was now my own boss and only I was responsible and accountable for my advancement in my career.

There are no boundaries in this life. When I hire my team I ensure to pay men and women equally and according to their experience and deliverables. We have a responsibility to offer equal opportunities to all humans, no matter what the gender or race.

A recent experience I had in South Africa with a local safe house that provides a transition home for newborns and abandoned children, took my breath away. There are newborn children left in gutters and at hospitals without documentation, often HIV positive, neglected, born addicted and premature. This diare situation is affecting the entire societal structure. Unless we place these children in stable homes and allow for inter-racial educational opportunity, we will not see change. We must strive to facilitate adoptions across borders to offer these children an opportunity at a privileged life without hunger and poverty, so they can return to their roots with an open mind and new mindset to add value to society.

It begins with each life we save. Education is the solution and government policies must support this need for evolution. Racial discrimination and sexual abuse are still amongst the most life threatening amongst the societal issues and we have the power to drive change as a collective.

You are a person of great influence. If you could inspire a movement that would bring the most amount of good to the most amount of people, what would that be? You never know what your idea can trigger. 🙂

The movement I represent is to inspire the most amount of people through Jazz Yoga by applying mindfulness meditation across the world with jazz music tuned at 432hz which is the heart vibration in line with the earth’s vibration and will allow for transformational change on a cellular level. This is a Global movement that will allow the corporate world to apply tools to reduce stress and in effect reduce loss of the bottom line and allow for healthy humans in the workforce.

This can be introduced as an immersive experience with the newest technology which permits us to offer every employee an opportunity to take charge of their health. Health is Wealth for every business and the individual. If we awaken and self-realise and elevate our thinking as human beings, we can tackle some of these concerns we have for our society. Mindfulness is the key to mental health and will lead us one step further towards peace on earth.

Can you please give us your favorite “Life Lesson Quote”? Can you share how that was relevant to you in your life?

It is never too late to rewrite your story and it is not what you outwardly, but the presence you bring to the action.

This understanding has allowed me to rewrite my story to become a thrivor in my own life. For the most part, I was standing in my own way. One day I decided to take the leap and follow my heart. Society tends to label and categorise us, and is usually based on stories of your past. If we allow this to influence our decision making instead of listening to our own heart, we will forever be trapped in the rat race of old thinking. When I decided to become a humanitarian and fully commit to my calling, the legal system failed me, and as a mother, I had to surrender and give up custody of my child to protect him. In the process I was humiliated and called crazy for my life choice to serve humanity. The irony of the story is that my own child understands what the legal system ignores, which is the fact that love is more powerful than money.

We are very blessed that some of the biggest names in Business, VC funding, Sports, and Entertainment read this column. Is there a person in the world, or in the US whom you would love to have a private breakfast or lunch with, and why? He or she might see this, especially if we tag them. 🙂

It would be my honor to meet Oprah and share with her the vision to make this world a better place by serving humanity through love and joy and the power of Jazz Yoga Mindfulness Meditation.

This was really meaningful! Thank you so much for your time.


“5 Things We Need To Do To Close The Gender Wage Gap” With Jasmine Gercke PhD was originally published in Authority Magazine on Medium, where people are continuing the conversation by highlighting and responding to this story.